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Queen Cone
Devoted September 2020

What order do we walk down the aisle??

Queen Cone, on June 7, 2020 at 7:55 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 14
I’m trying to figure out the best way to do this. I have 3 bridesmaids and 3 groomsmen. My FH’s mom has no one to walk her down the aisle except her other son and my mom also has no one besides my dad-who will also be walking me. Its a non-religious ceremony so I’m not worried about breaking any rules.


I orginally wanted everyone to walk down to the same song which is 5 minutes long. I figured it’s enough time but I’m not sure how this goes and even like when does the next person walk ? do they wait for the first person to get the altar or just wait a few seconds and then go?
help!

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Latest activity by Elizabeth, on June 8, 2020 at 6:34 AM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    They could also just walk by themselves? I don’t necessarily think they need to be escorted in. For me, I had each pair of wedding party members start walking when they saw that the previous pair almost got to the alter. If you have a rehearsal those are the times you can see what looks best to you
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  • Queen Cone
    Devoted September 2020
    Queen Cone ·
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    So both moms walk alone?
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    As far as when one goes after the other, I'm not quite sure but you can definitely work that out at your rehearsal. This is the guideline of the processional order. Of course, as you said, tweak it a bit if you'd like. Hope this helps.


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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You mentioned that FH mom has another son that could walk her? But if they did walk in alone I don’t think that’s a big deal. I’ve seen parents walk in alone in processionals
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    Five minutes is definitely long enough. However, the bride normally walks down the aisle to her own song. Why can't your future mother-in-law walk down the aisle with your brother-in-law? Is there another male relative your mom could be escorted by? For our wedding, my brother (who was also a bridesman) escorted my mom down the aisle since my dad was with me and my brother-in-law (who was also a groomsman) escorted my mother-in-law. My husband's parents are separated. My father-in-law and his fiancee didn't walk down the aisle. After my brother and brother-in-law escorted our moms down the aisle they looped back around and walked around so my brother could escort the groomswoman and my brother-in-law could escort one of the bridesmaids. As for timing, they were signaled by the venue coordinator when to walk.

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  • Queen Cone
    Devoted September 2020
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    I was told the “looping around” doesnt look right thats why i was concerned with the best man walking twice
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  • Mandee
    Devoted September 2020
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    I'm having the following order:

    My grandparents (only set of grandparents)

    My FMIL with her brother (my FH uncle)

    My mother on her own

    The groomsmen

    The best man

    My FH

    My bridesmaids

    My MOH

    the FG

    Me & My father.

    There will be several songs faded in and out as the different groups change. Hope that helps!


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    Champion July 2019
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    I'm guessing your brother-in-law is the best man. I disagree with whoever told you that looping around doesn't look right. We had no issues with my brother or brother-in-law looping around. We just practiced it at the rehearsal to make sure we timed it right.

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  • Queen Cone
    Devoted September 2020
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    I think because its outdoor in open space theres nowhere for him to really disappear to
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    Ours was a hotel lobby so they just walked along the side, but you could still see them. No one really paid close attention as they were busy watching the other bridesmaids and groomsmen walk down the aisle. Another option would be to have your fiance walk his mom down the aisle then he would take his place at the front.

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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
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    My brother walked in my mom, my husband walked in his mom. 5 minutes is more than enough time. Yes I would have them wait for each person to get down and then the next starts walking. Your best man doesn’t need to disappear to loop around. People understand that’s just part of the processional sometimes.
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  • Holly
    Dedicated October 2020
    Holly ·
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    I agree totally!! That's my exact response.
    Enjoy your day!
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    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    How about both Mom’s walking together? They are usually seated prior to the wedding party coming down.

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  • Elizabeth
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    Elizabeth ·
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    We won't be having my FMIL walk down the aisle; she'll just be seated. Where I'm from, traditionally the groom's mom isn't really featured at all. So ours will be my mom, who will walk to her seat and sit down, then the bridal party in pairs, and then the flower girls and ring bearer. Then the song will change and my dad will walk me down the aisle. Five minutes should be totally fine for length for the mom(s) and bridal party.

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