What is too much

A common theme iv realized with me and my friends are we have two different idea's of what is too much which is showing as more with me picking what I want to wear for my wedding they both thought a dress with tights (sense it was winter) and simple jewlery was too much when we was in school sense they wanted me to help pick out their outfits sense I would help our other female friends which I would actually add alot more accessories and more flashy clothes with them I kept it more simple because most they wore was jeans t-shirt and occasionally earings me on the other hand always preferred more flashy jewlery and clothes when choosing what bouquet i want one of them says the one I loved the most was way too detailed for her


I want something like this but with rose gold and shorten the hanging pearls and put them in a different pattern sense i am only 5 foot 2 inches i think it is the perfect amount of detail especially considering the dress ill be wearing is going to be even more detailed and a simple bouquet would look off in the amount of lace ruffles and pearls my dress will have which she also thought was too much dont get me wrong I do think things can be too much in my opinion like too many bright colors and colors that don't mix well together too much different elements and so on I think as long as you follow a theme tightly and moderate how much of each element you have and balance it properly it is hard for it too be too much