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What if you and your FH are too tired after the wedding to do naughty stuff????

Emma, on April 19, 2014 at 6:39 PM

Posted in Do It Yourself 30

It could happen. After a long day and being so stressed and party all night, you just want to go to sleep. I'm scared of something like that happening. I want us to be alone on our wedding nights and get naughty of course.....It's a special day we should both be enjoying more than anyone else. My FH...

It could happen. After a long day and being so stressed and party all night, you just want to go to sleep. I'm scared of something like that happening. I want us to be alone on our wedding nights and get naughty of course.....It's a special day we should both be enjoying more than anyone else. My FH gets tired fast and I'm scared. For example, when he gets home from work he falls asleep watching TV. And also when we go on road trips he does the same thing. I'm scared that after the wedding he will be too tired. Oh no!!!!

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  • Rachey
    VIP June 2014
    Rachey ·
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    I wouldn't worry about it, I pretty much know we're going to be too exhausted, and I'm sure he will be drinking a lot that night. We are having an after party from 12:30-2 and all his friends from NJ will be down. My only hope is that he comes back to the room with me and he doesn't want to stay up with his friends! lol

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  • Jessica
    Super October 2014
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    I am pretty sure we will be way to tired! we have been together 8 years already and have a baby so if we dont no big deal. we have many other nights.

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  • Caylin C.
    Master August 2015
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    Ours won't be ending that late so if we're tired we'll nap and then get to business Smiley winking

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  • PunkRockPrincess
    Super September 2015
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    The majority of couples do not have sex on their wedding night. I do not know anyone that did... I did not at my first wedding and more than likely wont this time. It is an EXHAUSTING experience and you just want to rip your clothes off (not in a sexy way) take a shower ... EAT (because you forget to) and pass the hell out. hahaha

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  • Gillian & Lendyl
    Devoted September 2014
    Gillian & Lendyl ·
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    Yeah...i'll be lucky if i can physically get from the car to the bed without major assistance since it will be a long day (due to health issues, not alcohol consumption!). definitely not happening on the wedding night.

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  • Sisi
    Expert August 2014
    Sisi ·
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    I honestly would be more surprised if we did rather than didn't. We've been together long enough that things like being tired

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  • Sisi
    Expert August 2014
    Sisi ·
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    I honestly would be more surprised if we did rather than didn't. We've been together long enough that being tired is a legitimate excuse for us. Plus we'll be married, we will be doing it for the rest of our lives. Im happy enough to get to lay down next to him at the end of the night and say goodnight husband

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  • Cheetah2B
    Master June 2014
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    We know we won't have sexy time that night lol. We have too many friends coming from out of state to be trying to run off to be alone that night lol. I haven't seen my moh since 2010, and before that, 2006. A few guests are army buddies fh hasn't seen in several years(1 of them since 2003!).

    We can't wait!

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    What ifs and I'm scareds are not a way to start a marriage--relax and enjoy whatever comes your way!

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  • Ashley
    VIP April 2013
    Ashley ·
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    Im telling you that night you will have a renewed energy walking into your room after the wedding. We looked at each other and it was over, we did it.

    For those worried about your in town friends, they should definitely understand its your wedding night and should give you some privacy. They can see you the next morning. That's absurd if they cant leave you alone for a little bit on your wedding night.

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