What has you stressed

Honestly, not much right now. We are two weeks out so everything is pretty much done and I'm at the point where I am just letting what is going to happen, happen. Last week we did our seating chart, I had my final fitting, and we got our marriage license. We also started our escort cards and confirmed final details with all of our vendors. This weekend we are meeting with our coordinator to run through everything one last time and that's honestly pretty much it. I just have to finish the escort cards, buy a few last minute small things, and wrap some gifts.

My church being lax about getting back to me about certain stuff. We have things booked but since we haven't gone through their marriage course it's up in the air. I asked our pastor for an exemption to the course so that we can go through private counseling instead and no one has gotten back to us on that. Then our pastor may be out of the country the day of our wedding so it's possible we'll need to find a new officiant. The sound staff has also not gotten back to us for an estimate for budgeting purposes. Frustrating but I'm sure everything will work out just fine for us in the end.

Everything right now lol. I'm getting overwhelmed with decisions and I just feel like I can't do this all by myself anymore lol. I really need to order invitations, but I'm so confused on timing and wording. Woe is me lol.

Up until Sunday (I know it hasn't been long, but I'm going with it), everything was. For weeks, I was so super stressed out (I got really sick three weeks ago, a cold sore popped up last week, & I literally started crying every morning). Finally FH & I started bickering. FH was like, how can we make this easier, do you want to pay everything off? I was like, it's not the price, there are just too many exemptions with the guests, and the venue isn't able to accommodate everything, and everything is coming back to me - and I don't even know most of these people. He was like no, we will do the best that we can (and what is available at the venue), and if the guests aren't happy, than oh well. You are making yourself miserable to appease our guests, and any guest that we want there, shouldn't want that for us - and if they are unhappy on the day, that oh well - that's too bad.

I feel you on people planning trips during the wedding. One of my uncles told my mom him and my aunt won't be able to make it because they'll be in Italy. I suppose it's possible they booked the trip before they got the Save the Date, but we sent them out back in November and posted about it even earlier on FB...

Ironically one of my bridesmaids lives in Italy and will be here for the wedding. I'm like, if she can make it from Italy, they can't?!

As for now things are kinda calm. But we do have some people who are antsy to book their hotel rooms. I keep telling them wait until the invitations are sent out (next month) because all the information will be there. There's 2 hotels by the same brand in town- one downtown which is more expensive and one in the suburbs that's cheaper- and I'm afraid of someone booking the wrong room and spending more than they have to in the first place.

Stressed about RSVPs. On the one hand, less RSVPs means a lower catering bill but on the other hand, I want people to come and celebrate with us.