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Ashley
Savvy June 2018

What does father say when giving away the daughter?

Ashley, on June 1, 2018 at 9:56 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

What does father normally say when giving away the daughter?

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Latest activity by Mim, on June 2, 2018 at 9:03 AM
  • Amanda
    Expert June 2018
    Amanda ·
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    They are typically asked "who.gives this woman to be married" or some version of that, and the responses vary from "I do" to "her mother and I do" to "her family does"
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  • Lovely Mrs. B
    Dedicated June 2018
    Lovely Mrs. B ·
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    My dad will be saying "her mother and I do" tomorrow!
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  • Ashley
    Savvy June 2018
    Ashley ·
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    Thank you!

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  • A
    Just Said Yes July 2018
    Ayana ·
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    Usually when the officiant asks “Who gives this women...” the father replies “I do” or he may say “Her mother and I do. (The second one is how many brides want it done) I say it’s up to the MOB, Bride and FOB
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  • Swtnss238
    VIP May 2019
    Swtnss238 ·
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    My son is giving me away and he will say " I do, her Eldest Son".
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  • PrettyinPink
    Expert March 2018
    PrettyinPink ·
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    We had our ceremony written for us and when I was "given away" by my father, no words were exchanged. He just hugged me, shook my husband's hand and we proceeded on. I think exchanging words and saying "Who gives this women..." is odd and way too archaic for me personally.

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    Mim ·
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    I agree, no one should be treated as property to be given from one person to another. Words of support and blessing are lovely, if it's coming from both sides. At my wedding and at my daughter's the pastors asked both sets of parents if they give their support and blessings to the couple and the response was "We do".
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