Hi ladies in one of my previous posts I have mentioned that my MOH wanted to throw me a shower but I really didn't think it was necessary since FH and I have lived together for some years now and we have what we need or can get them ourselves. But now I feel left out like I'm missing out on an experience since this is my 1st wedding. I wanted to know if there's any replacement party ideas for bridal showers. I am not looking for gifts, just a nice get together with family and friends. By the way I didn't have an engagement party either.