Westchester county ny brides

My venue said they dont know anything more than the government knows. we have to wait and see what phase 4 will entail. cuomo announced today phase 3 will allow 25 people gatherings so we cannot move forward until we know the gathering size allowed in phase 4. the other question is whether or not staff will be included in that count. they feel it will be. my venue said hold off on invitations until we know for sure how many we can invite and what the restrictins will be. the restaurant for my bridal shower said the exact same thing- that we cant make any decisions until government gives guidance.

View Quoted Comment Its freaking me out. Where are u getting married?

View Quoted Comment I dont wanna jinx myself so i wont say LOL but its westchester. im worried too but ive come to terms with cutting the guest list as long as i can get married. i think this is going to be going on for more than just the near future i just want to know that i can have the wedding and get over the wondering everyday.

View Quoted Comment Aww! We have 250 ppl in lower Westchester for October 23.

View Quoted Comment Well find out the phase 4 guidines once some of those upstate regions enter phase 4 which will be before us- probably end of june. im curious what theyll be

View Quoted Comment Same! Ive got June 26th marked on my calender for upstate phase 4 smh....waiting as usual....

View Quoted Comment What are u thinking will be with the mask situation!?

View Quoted Comment Oh man...🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Idk. Thats the ONE thing im having a hard time with. My FH has repeatedly said he's not okay with a masked wedding, smh... I read the CDC's guidelines for weddings they put out last Fri. It said that employers and their employees should be required to wear them, and that they are "encouraging" attendees of events to use them. Its so up in the air.. and like I said idk what will happen after the two weeks in phase 4... Its hard because the decisions ultimatley come down to what the gov thinks is best. Our infection rate now is the lowest in the country but we got hit the hardest also. Its literally 50/50 at this point.. what do you think though..??

View Quoted Comment My venue said they think only staff will be required

View Quoted Comment Guess we gota wait and see. My venue hasnt said anything. Ive called them once every month for updates but they have nothing to tell me. Hopefully we'll know more by next Fri. I havent ordered invites bc I dont know how many I need and theyre expensive.

View Quoted Comment Im in the exact same boat girl. they tell me nada. i wish they would at least say “well in this case this is what we’ll do” or “in that case this is our plan.” I think theyll have to release the phase 4 guidelines for NY before any phase enters phase 4. Since Cuomo’s not doing his briefings anymore after Friday but he’ll tell us friday?

View Quoted Comment Right! I asked my venue what their plan is bases on what they know so far and they told me nothing.. i dont understand how they dont know what guidelines they need in place before they open, since u camt open without them! And I hope Cuomo does tell us Fri! Hope being the key word here lol. He says he'll do the briefings 'as necessary' after that which to me sounds like he'll prob wait to release phase 4 until end of June. Buuuut I could totally be wrong-which I hope I am- and we'll know this Fri! Fingers crossed. Such a damn headache with all of this...

View Quoted Comment I know. i dont understand how my venue has no idea what theyll be able to do in terms of layout either. they know what the cdc guidelines are- why aren’t they brainstorming?? im open to any ideas. they also made it seem like they couldnt do the wedding if it was less than 100 people. i said what if we can only have 75 and they were kinda like “wellll... i guess we could do a wedding of 75” like isn’t that better than cancelling and having to return all my money ??? and I’m sure cuomo has some idea how many people will be allowed in phase 4. the next 2 weeks are going to be suspenseful.

Yah I imagine theyd still want to have weddings! Idk...its all so stressful 🥴

View Quoted Comment Samantha where in Westchester county are u getting married?

The state of Pennsylvania is doing phases in colors. They have 3 phases red yellow and green..currently they're in yellow so next phase is green in the greeb phase social gathering of 250 or less can occur .

View Quoted Comment Yea sadly thats pennsylvania and each state has their own restrictions. Ny is one of the strictest states Im sure cuomos gonna give us a lowwww capacity size. meanwhile over in tennessee theyre allowing 30,000 to gather for nascar on july 15.

Https://www.wgrz.com/article/news/health/coronavirus/what-could-phase-4-of-reopening-look-like-in-western-new-york/71-73417768-4a0d-406b-93d6-83c35884d56a
this article gives some hope for “larger gatherings” for ny

My point is if other states have an idea about social gathering why cant NY? Its just annoying.

View Quoted Comment Hey Lisa! Im actually getting married on Long Island. But westchester and LI are in the same phase group basically, i think westchester may be like 1 day ahead of LI in reopening stages but ya, pretty much the same time line.