I'm planning on having a relatively small wedding (50 guests) with just family members, most of whom are coming from out of town. We were planning on hosting a "welcome dinner" at a local restaurant for all of our guests the night before the wedding so our families can meet each other and socialize when they get to town. Our wedding would then be at a church in the early afternoon on Saturday, with a "cake and punch" reception to follow in the church hall (around 2 pm).
Would it be strange to host a full dinner with drinks prior to the wedding and then no formal reception afterwards? My FH and I are not interested in a night-time reception with dancing, speeches, etc., but still want to host our guests appropriately. Thoughts or advice?