Weddings during covid

I think you're doing enough already, and I think it's fine to leave early after you're finished singing your song. If the bride loves you just as much as you love her, I'm sure she'll understand why you don't feel comfortable staying at the wedding too long.

Hi Lauren! Have you asked for their plans ahead if they're going to follow strict protocols for social distancing etc? My friend attended her friend's wedding last month as an MC, they didn't wear a mask at the venue both in wedding and rehearsal but they do follow protocols like social distancing, sitting arrangements, food being laid to their tables by attendants, and so on. In the end, they had a smooth ride ending the wedding. I hope the same happens at your friend's wedding too. And I'm sure your friend will understand if you leave early after you do your role in her wedding.

Yes I definitely agree with prior posters. You are doing more than enough to support your friend and the couple. That is so sweet that you're singing for them! I would agree: as soon as the first dance is done, say goodbye to the couple and bounce! Good luck! I'll be sending lots of good vibes your way!

You should do only what you feel comfortable doing. You will not be a jerk if you leave early because you are taking the pandemic seriously and taking actions to protect your own health, and what you have said you are doing is more than enough!

The bride and groom are going to be so pre-occupied with each other, greeting other guests and taking in the rest of the night, i doubt they will take it at all personally!

We just got married October 3 and had one of our groomsmen tell us a few months before that he wouldn't be able to stay for the reception and his wife couldn't come at all because of health concerns (we later learned she is pregnant!). He wanted to be safe for his wife and we totally understood. We were just happy he didn't have to totally back out and was still able to come support us at the ceremony. We made sure to visit with him before he had to leave and I made sure he was able to take a meal and cupcake home before he left. He stayed long enough to do the bridal party entrance into the reception and chat for a bit before the reception really started with dinner. I knew he didn't WANT to leave and not stay longer, but he was being a good husband and that was perfectly fine! You aren't a jerk for wanting to leave, but I would let the bride and groom know ahead of time if possible if that is what you plan to do so it is not a surprise the day of.

Hi Lauren!

Girl, I totally understand! Your health has to come first and I know that the bride will be understanding! You just being there to support her will mean a lot and even if you decide to leave early. I know she's going to be super excited for her day and you're an important piece of the puzzle but your health is equally as important as well. Be safe and stay healthy! Give us an update once the wedding passes and congrats to your friend!

Ahh you're such good friends! CONGRATS as well!! Your dress looks stunning from your profile pic!