I had posted before mentioning my sister wanted to wear an almost bride looking prom dress to my garden/restaurant wedding. I was still debating having bridesmaids and this gave me the push to do so. Yesterday i made cute little lace and ribbon cards that said "will you be my bridesmaid" and handed it to my sister in law and made one for my sister and left it for her in her room since she would come home from work after 11pm. She texted me in the morning, "yes i will be your bm!" Then sent me another that said "wait im not your moh?" And i told her i wasnt having a moh. (I chose to not have a moh because i didnt want any drama with peoples feelings getting hurt.)
I told her it didnt matter who that i didnt have a moh because my mil had told me we could arrange them according to height. And she got really bad and said my mil had said that because my sil is short and that way she could be upfront and that she didnt want to be a md.
I told her to please do it and that i would make sure she was upfront. She refused to be in the wedding party and said i hadnt even asked her..which is crazy because the damn card i gave her said "will you be my bridesmaid!" I feel so sad. I went to reserve my ceremony site today and couldnt help but cry while i was there. 
