So I have some managable problems with anxiety and my FH is painfully shy. Many of my guests are socially awkward, shy or also have issues with anxiety so I am trying to think of ways to reduce anxiety indu situations in my wedding.
I am not doing the garter removal or the bouquet toss because i've never known anyone who thinks "yay!" when the time comes
I'm not doing forced speeches where the videographer shoves microphones in peoples faces and demands "say something to the happy couple" cause I dont want to view your deer in the headlights gaze for the next 30 years and its not "funny". He'll be told to accept speeches if approached.
Some of my BP feel that passed apps is a source of anxiety.. They feel like they're asking for food or feel the need to make pleasant banter so I am having stationary apps
The DJ/MC can't tease or force people to dance. Let people party however they define it. Some just like to watch.
Anyone have anything to add that i'm forgetting?
