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Expert September 2018

Wedding Withdrawal...anyone else?

catobx, on September 10, 2018 at 12:26 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 14

Ok this is going to sound like a dumb self-serving post but oh my god, we are a week out from our wedding and I feel somewhat depressed that it's over. It was literally the perfect day, despite some rain at the end of our ceremony, but it gave us a *double rainbow* I mean, WHAT?! I've only seen a DR like 2 times in my life, it felt like the heavens parted for us. And just with all of the people we love, family, friends, who came from near and far, and knowing we will likely not ever have that kind of gathering again....it's just sad for me (but please don't get me wrong...I took it all in and was/am insanely appreciative that it even happened). I am elated to be married to husband and cannot wait for our future together, starting a family at some point, etc, but has anyone else dealt with the wedding blues? It felt like we planned it forever, stressed and went back and forth on things, and we were so happy with how it all turned out, but I feel like I have nothing to do now. I know it's not about the wedding, rather, about the union, and I am so happy and grateful for that. But we are both super close to our family and friends so as monumental as it was having everyone together, I feel sad that it will likely never happen again. I can only just be grateful and revel in the memories and video we have. Anyway, here are our preview pics again, I can't stop reliving that day thru them so enjoy.

And to all brides to be --- it *will* be stressful at points. You *will* want to rip your hair out. But, it will be the best freaking day ever, if it rains, or is sunny, whatever -- take 5 minutes to step aside and watch from afar if you can. You will probably never get an event like this again, with the special people in your life showering you with love. Take it in, more important than anything else, stop. and take it all in, breathe, and feel that love. Xoxo

In the gardenWedding Withdrawal...anyone else? 1

Slightly rainy ceremony that *flew by* Wedding Withdrawal...anyone else? 2

Our double rainbow before we made our grand entrance to the receptionWedding Withdrawal...anyone else? 3


14 Comments

Latest activity by Santiago/Bowe, on September 11, 2018 at 1:36 PM
  • BlessedBenton
    Dedicated December 2018
    BlessedBenton ·
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    These pictures 😍😍😍
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    So glad you posted a few again! Forgot to write in your BAM how GOOOORGEOUS your wedding looked. You seriously look like a fairytale princess!! 👸 🤴

    Lol. I hear ya. For a few weeks we wanted to relive our magical day over & over. But we’d skip the planning! No thanks. For now, enjoy getting your weekends back...date night...girls night out. 💕
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  • Amanda
    Expert August 2019
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    This is beautiful! Like a fairy tale! Congratulations!!!! Enjoy the next step as husband and wife!
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    Super October 2018
    Cassandra ·
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    Thank you so much for the advice!!!

    Although, I’m not married yet, I feel like your situation is normal. It took so much time and effort into wedding planning, that it almost consumes you for however long you did it. It became a part of your daily life, so once it is over, a part of you is gone.

    I would say is find a new hobby to help you fill the void. Learn to can, take yoga, but do something to keep you busy. After I get married, I have to search for a new job, so that will probably fill my void.

    Also, you looked beautiful!!
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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
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    Everything looks amazing!

    Lol you aren’t alone, I’ve actially seen numerous posts just like this so this is definitely a thing haha. Maybe a vow renewal in the next 5-10 years?
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Gorgeous photos! That rainbow is amazing. I’m so sorry you’re feeling that void... I’m not getting married for another 9 months but I have a feeling I’m going to end up feeling like this too. One way that my FH and I already discussed to make ourselves feel better after the wedding is that we will be planning a 1 year anniversary trip to renew our vows (just the two of us). I have a feeling that planning the details of that will help get me excited for something new and distracted from the wedding blues. Also we are currently living at my mom's house to save money, and are going to wait until we are married to get a place of our own, so that'll be something new and special to look forward to after the wedding.

    Congrats on your marriage, and I am so happy your day was so wonderful! I'm sure there are other projects/activities you can get absorbed in to make yourself feel better Smiley smile
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  • 2018 Bride
    Devoted September 2018
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    We are a few weeks until the wedding and I am already starting to anticipate the post-wedding blues! I think it's totally normal to have a little bit of a let down after planning/ looking forward to something for so long. But it sounds like you had a perfect day and really took it all in! And you're right- the memories will last a lifetime!

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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
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    Seriously...your pictures are everything!

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  • Lindsey
    Savvy August 2019
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    I'm still a year out from my wedding, but I already worry about the post-wedding depression, because I KNOW that not having all the exciting little projects and things to look forward to is going to be sad! Planning a wedding feels like such purpose because it's such a big day and the one big chance we get to create a really beautiful experience with those we most love. I agree with what some ladies said above, and trying to find a new hobby/project! Kind of like the Disney movie Tangled... Now you can find a new dream! =)

    Maybe decide what your favorite party-throwing occasion is and make that your "thing" every year! Whether it's a Christmas party, Superbowl party, summer dinner party or whatever, you can still create a wonderful event on a smaller scale!

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    Devoted August 2018
    Emily ·
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    I got married on August 25 and we just got back from our honeymoon this weekend. I'm also feeling pretty blue, although not as much as I expected. One thing we're doing is looking into planning something fun for later this fall. We live in Florida, so maybe a day trip to Epcot, and we're also thinking of going to the orchestra. Having a little something to look forward to is helping me a lot.


    By the way, your pictures are absolutely stunning!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
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    Hey cbryns!

    First of all, we were all fawning over your wedding pictures and video when you posted them! Second of all, I think it's totally normal to miss planning your wedding! It's something that took up so much of your time, thought, and effort! And it's so nice to have all your friends and family in one area - you're absolutely right about that!

    Maybe you could work on making a scrapbook of your gorgeous wedding photos or one of those digital Shutterfly books Smiley smile That would be a great way to not only relive the day, but also have an amazing compilation of wedding memories to share for years to come!

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    I'm probably more active on here now that my wedding is over than last year when I was planning my wedding! So I understand what you're talking about. Our wedding was everything and more so I love sharing advice with couples still planning their dream wedding. Your pictures are amazing! Stick around and share your experiences/advice with others! Smiley smile

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    Savvy November 2019
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    These pictures are so beautiful! Smiley heart

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  • Santiago/Bowe
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Wow!!!!!!!!!! no words

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