I am in need of some ideas and some encouragement. I am looking for any ideas to have a wedding around Christmas time. Christmas time is a time hope and renewal and I feel that is what my fiance and I truly need.
See, we were planning to get married this passed November and it was postponed to December 2019. March we had to cancel our wedding because I got into a severe car accident and my car was totalled just day of having it for 1 year. We were planning to use our deposit for our venue to buy a new car. My insurance paid for the remain note of the car. Well much to our surprise, the venue refused to give our deposit back. So we lost the car, cancelled our wedding and lost our deposit. Fast forward to about June. My fiance gets laid off after being in the company for 25 years. Right away we updated his resume and began looking for a job. Well he found one! (YAY). He began to notice his legs swelling up. One day he comes home and says to be he is having difficulty breathing. It was not like him to complain. It was getting worse as the night came and finally he asked to take him to the hospital. When we arrived ER rushed him back. He was having heart failure. Right away they rushed him to ICU and was there for about a day when we were sitting alone in his hospital room and he went into a seizure. They ran some test, (meanwhile, my fiance had no recollection of this) He was hemorrhaging and lost a lot of blood. They had to give him a blood transfusion and gave him 8 units of blood. They did more testing including a colonoscopy and found polyps and one of them had cancer. He had the surgery and by the grace of God they got it all and he is cancer free. Now we are good to go to get married. Our family was soo excited for us to get married and was looking forward to April 18,2020. Until the Coronavirus came. Everything was all set and ready to go. Now both of us being off work all of this time and wondering when and where should we have the wedding. We don't want it big and it doesn't have to be in an expensive place. This is our second wedding and we don't want to go and spend $20,000 for a wedding. Any ideas??