Hi! So I am facing an interesting dilemma and could use some where to vent or rant.
I already own a nice townhouse and I asked the FH and he says it is basically up to me if I want to do a wedding or have the money my parents would spend on the wedding to be used for part of s downpayment on a house.
We would not be moving anytime soon, also we would have to save up our on part of the downpayment and for closing cost, etc. so part of me is like, let’s just do the wedding!
Then the more practical part of me says, that would be less we would have to save for a downpayment in the end and we are going to want to move.
I am trying to see if there is a way that we can just pay for the wedding ourselves. We are only going to be inviting around 40 people and there is a good chance only 30 will be able to come. It is has already been kind of hard to find a venue that is not too big and sprawling, both my dad and my FMIL have bad knees so doing a lot of walking is bad.
I kind of wish we could do our wedding at Olive Garden but I’m not sure that will work. I would love to do it at a restaurant but I’m just not sure about where the ceremony would be.
I basically have until this Friday to decide because the contract for the venue (it’s a nice place near were I grew up) we were going to use is being mailed out on Friday and I don’t want them to mail the contract if we end up not using the venue, it just seems like bad business.
EDIT: My mom was the one who brought using the money for a downpayment instead of a wedding.
Thoughts? Stories about restaurant weddings? Feedback?