Hi there! I’m having trouble deciding if we should exchange our vows at the altar or in private. I don’t mind doing it at the altar, but my FH prefers that we do it in a more intimate setting. If we do it in private, should we do it after our first look and read our vows to each other? Or perhaps write letters to each other and read them while we are getting ready? I need suggestions/ ideas! ❤️ I want it to be special.