Wedding Thank Yous

I don't think that's wrong at all. It sounds like a logical division of labor to me.

Nope, I think that's totally fine, but I'd have you both sign all the cards as a nice personal touch.

If its wrong, then we did it wrong!
We wrote our guests cards then swapped and signed the ones the others wrote.

Why would that be wrong? It’s not up to one spouse to do everything.

No I don't think that's wrong. I just wrote all of them though aha and signed it with his name but if I did it the way you're suggesting that def woulda been way easier.

Not wrong. I wrote all of our thank yous but that was my choice.

We did that too! It was the easiest way to split the work.

Why on earth would that be wrong? Seems like they'd be more personalized if you're each writing to your own families. And there is no actual connection between being in possession of a vagina and being obligated to write all the thank you notes.

As stated, not wrong. I'm only doing all of ours because I know FH would not take the time to sit down and right a thank you card, let alone put it in the mail

Seems only fair to divide up the workload.

Totally fine, I’d just make sure you each sign from both of you!
Ex: dear aunt ___, thank you so much for your generous gift! We look forward to seeing you at thanksgiving this year! Sincerely ___ & ____

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Omg lol.. those silly vaginas, they always get us into trouble don't they?

Maybe I'll make him do my family's cards and I'll do his!! I think he feels closer to most of my family then he does most of his own lol