Wedding stress

I have not had that experience yet, but i'm sure that I will. With all the stress and time that goes into planning you just want everything to be perfect!

I would recommend trying to take a deep breath ( I know easier said than done) but also do something for yourself thats not wedding related. IE get a massage, take a hot bath, read a book, and try to get some good rest.

Congrats and im sure it will be wonderful!

Just remember that at the end of the day, if you are married, the day was a success! Any errors will just be something to laugh about later!

Absolutely on the same train as you right now with my hair and nails. My stress is that I'm still looking for someone to do the 1st part I need done cause my stylist doesn't do it 😑. And the person I was talking to about my nails hasn't responded for a few days so I'm asking around to still get that done. I'm just over it and hope everything falls into place.

I know how you feel so many things happen these last few days as well for me. First one of my fiance's friends told me that he wouldn't be able to make it because his manager is refusing to give him the day off. ((In my opinion I think that was his fault because he actually told his manager last week about the wedding when I told his friend about the date of the wedding four months in advance. If he would have told him earlier this wouldn't have happened)) so I have to have my younger brother take this place and now my mom has to hurry and find a matching tux fo him.

And then literally the same week I get a call from one of my bridesmaids telling me the same thing, that her manager isn't giving her the day off but the difference between her and him is her manager didn't take the time (4 months in advance) she gave him to find coverage for her because she does security and just this week he told her that she needs to find coverage which is his job. And by no surprise because it's so late no one accepted and she can't come so I have to find another bridesmaid 😭 AND make sure she has the same dress.


To make matters worse the reservation I made in Indeo for our honeymoon , the resort ended up getting the room I ordered wrong so I had to pay an extra $150 to change a mistake THEY made.-.

$150 made a big difference on the budget I tried to put my self on this week because I still have to pay to get my hair done, my makeup, nails, and eyebrows😟. It's not that I won't be able to pay for all these things I will but nobody likes going over their budget.


But yeah my mother-in-law saw that I was really stressing gave me some tea that really helped me calm down. Right now I'm just watching my favorite anime in my free time trying to distract myself 😅

OMG! That's crazy. I couldn't even imagine that amount of stress. Especially so close. We've been over budget for awhile lol but luckily, FH's grandpa (as a gift) decided to help us out quite a lot. But as far as having to find replacements, I'd honestly pull my hair out. We will get through this girl. Come hell or high water!

It's completely normal, enjoy every bit of it!! And at the end of the day, it will be worth everything.

We're still 3 months out (Nov. 6) and I'm already stressing over all the little things and wanting everything to be perfect. God love my mom - she always brings me back in off the ledge and one of the big things she has taught me is that if something doesn't go exactly as you wanted it to, the only one who's going to know is you (and in this case maybe your fiancée) but at the end of the day most of our guests will have no clue about all the little intricate details that we are so focused on being perfect. The only way a small mishap or missed detail will ruin your day is if you let it. Like one of the other posters mentioned take some time for you BEFORE the wedding. Give yourself time to decompress even if it's as simple as some deep breathing. Everything will be perfect - including your hair!

We had our wedding a little over a week ago, and I, surprisingly, wasn't all that stressed out until literally the day before the wedding when we set up the venue. We had to reschedule so many times that it didn't seem real until literally hours before the wedding.

Everything will work out for the best, even with the stress!!!!!!

Anime and tea are good. How about after, you write a sweet note to your fiance to read before the ceremony-- and re-read it when stress gets you down. Or write a post-it for yourself with a mantra. For example: "I know there's a lot that could go wrong. What could go right?" or "I will not let this be me (aka the unhappy bride)". I will be getting married this week also and am taking small steps to be "Zen Wen". All will be well, you'll see.