Wedding Shower After Wedding?

At this point I don’t think there’s a wrong or right way! This has never happened before so honestly there’s no correct way. I mean for us we’re going our honeymoon and when wedding lol! We had to postpone our April wedding to August! I think doing it afterwards is totally okay!

I agree with Jordan! There's no "normal" in this situation!!

Can you do a quick poll of your close friends and family members? You could invite their opinions and make a group decision to either do a "virtual shower" before the wedding or to just have a post wedding shower!

Absolutely do your shower after the wedding! These are unusual circumstances. I have a little more time then you, but if we do have to postpone shower(again)/Bach party we are going to do it after the wedding. So far all family and friends had no issues. I do see anything wrong with it!

I don’t think you should return the gifts anyway because you really did mean to have a shower but due to external circumstances you couldn’t so I think people still would want you to have it

I would just cancel the shower, but that's personal preference. I also don't see any reason for returning the gifts. The gifts are not being gifted to you because you're having a shower, they're being gifted because you're getting married. That's the entire purpose of the shower. Now, if yall just called off getting married all together and ended your engagement, then gifts would need to be returned, but that's not what happened. Basically any gifts that were going to be given at the shower should just be given at the wedding, that's why I personally wouldn't invest the time and money in holding a shower. BUT if YOU really want the experience of having a shower and hate to miss out on that aspect then totally go for having a shower!

I think considering the circumstances and this situation, it's totally fine to do the shower after the wedding. I think most of the guests will be understanding about the timing.

There is no wrong or right way in this pandemic. Everyone will understand. Do what suits you best

I agree with everyone else! This is such a strange time to be around, I don’t think anyone would judge you for doing it differently

I never thought of this. I'm going to look more into this. My fh and i are still sticking with our date but only 8 guest. The church is only limiting the amount of people in the church. So this would be a perfect idea.

No right or wrong answer here! I’d definitely do what you want to do because ultimately it’s up to you. Your day, your way 😊