Wedding registry / 2nd marriage

Make a small registry for things you want to upgrade (fraying towels, faded bed sheets) and just tell anyone who asks "we really don't need all that much". Adults know how to give cash. You definitely don't ask for it.

I think there are registry sites for the honeymoon.

My coworker mentioned to me that you don't typically give gifts for a second wedding when her daughter was getting married for the second time. Anyway you could request that they make a donation to a specific charity in your names instead of gifts.

What ZeldaBride said - make a small registry and people who don't want to buy from that will just provide cash/gift cards instead.

When my mom remarried, we decided to throw her a small shower and when people called my gmom to RSVP, they asked and she told them that if they wanted to give a gift, to buddy up and get her christmas dishes (dad got them in the divorce). Pretty much everyone did, and not expecting it at all, she loved it. So maybe there's something like that that you would like? Just an idea.

Don't register. Also don't register for a honeymoon or ask for donations to a charity. No one needs to be told how to gift money or anything else for that matter should they want to

You don't typically throw showers for someone's second child because they usually already have a lot of the things they need, I guess I have always thought second weddings were the same way.

This is my second wedding. I did not want to register. A good friend finally convinced me. I did a really small registry at Macy's. But honestly I'm thinking about taking it down. In my experience most people buy gifts off the registry for the shower and bring cash for the wedding. Since it is a second wedding I am not having a shower. I am not comfortable with that at all.

When my parents remarried each other, they said no gifts because they just wanted people to be there (they got married in the backyard less than 2 weeks after my dad proposed to my mom, they did a phone call invite to all family memebers and close friends) but people gave them gift cards and cash anyway. People know how to give money so either say no gifts or do a small registry.