Wedding Planning on Hold

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I am so sorry amd praying your mom recovers. That's a rough time but you will get through. I understand you want to wait. Sensing positive vibes.

Oh no! Sending lots of love and prayers your way! I hope everything turns out great for you and your family!

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Dynesha, I'm so sorry your family is dealing with this. My aunt was diagnosed with cancer at the beginning of this year and it's been a struggle for me mentally. My advice for you would be to just keep mommy in good spirits! Continue to live life as if nothing has changed. Of course things will be different and it will get hard but keep her mind busy. Our thoughts are the first things the body experiences. Still talk about the wedding, still do your daily routine together, and just be there for those low moments. There isn't much one can say to prepare a person for this battle but those are things I felt that helped when dealing with my aunt. She hates to feel isolated or like she'll be gone tomorrow. So just keep living life, don't stop just because this small road block showed up. Also talk with her treatment team, they offer lots of support and can give you tips and education on the process. I'm sending you lots of hugs, lots of love and lots of blessings for you, your mom, your friend, your friends fiance's family and your family. Sending peace and understanding your way! Keep that head up!

I’m so sorry to hear that, Dynesha. My mom has been diagnosed with a rare form of cancer twice. It’s never easy to deal with. I would say, talk to your mom and your fiancé together. Have an honest conversation about her diagnosis and her wishes, not in a controlling or selfish way, but so that she can give her input. If she would prefer you guys postpone wedding planning for a bit because it either drains her, makes her anxious or depressed, or anything like that I would say postpone it and focus on your mom. That’s all that matters in those moments. You may also find that she *doesn’t* want you to postpone it cuz it gives her motivation and is a goal and reward for working through this. Either way, let her be the one to guide you during these times, and make sure that your fiancé understands and is on board. And if he loves you, like we all know he does because you’re getting married, he’ll do what you need in these moments. I’ll pray for you guys. ❤️

I’m so very sorry for the unfortunate news. Sending prayers and love your way! I hope it all works out well! Stay strong ❤️

I’m so sorry you are going through all of this !! Sending prayers 💛

I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through and am praying for you and your family. Keep the faith and focus on family for now.

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. sending you love and prayers your way. i hope your mother kicks cancers ass!!!

View Quoted Comment Thank you for sharing. She has the tumor removed but must go through chemotherapy that will cause her lose her hair. She said she’d just get a wig for the Wedding and has been taking everything else in stride. I’m living as normal as I can, but have cut out a few activities to spend time with her instead. Our family is trying to remain strong and present for her-—she was in the hospital for 7 days and someone was there every hour of the day and night. Thanks for the positive vibes!

View Quoted Comment Thank you for the suggestion. I will definitely ask her what her wishes are. My fiancé is sympathetic and understands my feelings during this. I appreciate your guidance!

View Quoted Comment No problem at all! I'm glad you can be there for her, that's really the greatest gift of them all!

Sending out positive vibes to you. I wish your mother the best in her health and journey

I’m so sorry to hear, I hope your mom gets better. I do not have any words unfortunately.