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Just Said Yes October 2026

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Te, on September 3, 2025 at 12:13 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 2
Hi all! I’m sure this topic has been asked about a million times so I apologize for asking a million and 1.


I am planning on only asking my childhood best friend who is like a sister to be my matron of honor & my fiancé is going to ask his brother to be his best man. I don’t have any siblings and everyone knows my moh is like my little sister. I don’t think I’ll regret not having a wedding party but I would regret hurting anyone who may expect to be a bridesmaid. Do I have to explain to anyone why I won’t have bridesmaids? I know it seems like a silly question, I just want to make sure I’m being respectful/proper in a situation like this.
I still want to honor my girlfriends so I was thinking of giving them a note and a token of my appreciation (bracelet, barrette, necklace) during my potential bachelorette party. Do you think it will be viewed as a consolation prize? I really don’t want feelings to be hurt - I know that’s basically unavoidable though. Has anyone been in this situation before that may have a good solution?
Any advice to make sure my close friends still feel loved and appreciated would be appreciated!

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Latest activity by Sarah, on September 10, 2025 at 1:20 AM
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    Personally I wouldn't do anything. I don't think you need to explain why someone wasn't picked or give them a gift. I think that would come off more hurtful than actually a kind gesture.

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  • Sarah
    Savvy June 2025
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    Hi! If you don’t want bridemaids then don’t have them lol!
    I did choose my newest friend to be my maid of honor, I’m sure my oldest friend was a little let down, I would be too.
    I’m sure your girlies would love to honor & celebrate you in that way, But at the end of the day if your friendship is really that strong it doesn’t matter whether or not you’re a maid of honor or bridemaid no one is entitled to anything. What’s important is being there for the bride.
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