So we're having a little wedding party drama. I have 6 girls standing up, my sister is my MOH, my FH's sister and 4 girls from college. My FH has a brother (his BM) who is married and she just found out she is not going to be a bridesmaid, when she apparently thought she was a shoe-in, so she's pissed obviously. We hang out with them semi-frequently, but she is tolerable at best. She is a one upper, always makes everything about herself, and she stresses me out more than she brings joy.
Both our families and friends (minus his brother of course) agree that it was the right move on our part, but I can't help but feel a little bad. It wasn't my intention to leave her out on purpose, but I don't feel like I'm that close with her and I like having my bridal party capped at 6.
Just want to see if anyone else has gone through a similar situation? I thought about having her help pass out programs and be an "usherette" at the wedding, but this is also TBD based on how she acts towards me now. Any other way to help get her involved somehow? I was obviously going to invite her to the shower, bachelorette, etc.
