Now i know everyone will have their own opinions and thoughts on this so please do share! A little backstory is my matron of honor (my cousin) was married 5 years ago and now has a child, the flower girl in my wedding. I did everything for her wedding day, from dresses to hair, makeup, shower etc. However she always revolves EVERYTHING back to her and her child. Saying things such as "her hair is so long cant wait to see what it looks like on the wedding day" or "i cant wait to watch her walk down the aisle in her dress". YES i get it shes her child, but WHAT ABOUT ME?! its my day and i feel like she completely puts every convo back to herself. It is even at the point she doesn't remember basic things about the wedding such as when the bachelorette party is that she is coming too. I have also postponed my wedding from June to August and she started saying covid is returning in August.. why would you even say that to someone you know is already stressed?! The topper on the cake was this week she and her daughter planned on wearing matching white dresses to my bridal shower, and when I expressed I didn't really want them to wear white she was mad at me. How do you all feel about this? I just assumed you wouldn't wear white to someone else's bridal shower? Thoughts? Also has anyone had a matron of honor revolve everything around them?