I am just so done with everything emotionally.. i have to rant about ti somewhere! you will NOT believe this last month.
I am getting married this weekend. WOOHOO!!! i planned everything that i could to make the weekend as simple and easy going as possible! for those that have been reading.. ive been bending over backwards for my mother to appease her and get on her good side (if there is one) so she stops spreading rumors and is OK with my wedding plan... she even agreed it was nice of my bridesmaids to have a wedding shower in both locations so people didnt have to drive! (2 hours apart, on different days)
My Wedding invitees:
MOH, 3 bridesmaids, 3 groomsman, FH 2 sets of parents, my mother, dad and his wife. flower girl and ring bearer, BF, and my grandma.. Note this is LESS THEN 20 PEOPLE....
No lets hear about this last month..
MOH gets evicted so they can remodel, Bridesmaid get hospitalized with wound requiring several dressing changed, another bridesmaid laid off, and another bridesmaid returned from maternity leave and all the vacation days she put in are moot because they scheduled her for EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM, and she has to get her own replacement for those days. also my grandma gets hospitalized (shes fine now though!). i call my hotel to confirm my rooms (for the 4th time just to be safe) and they lost my photographers room (i was able to replace the room but now she has to drive 20 mins...)
then my wedding showers happen, no problem with the first one it was great and tons of fun! literally no one showed up to my other one. several RSVP'd to it.. no one showed up. bridesmaids mad because they spent money on food and location...
whatever moving on.. bridesmaid with wound gets hospital bill, her insurance says they wont cover it. Mom decides she isnt coming unless i get her and my grandma a hotel for the night. i told her back in November the dates and the plan AND told her 2 months ago all the problems i had getting a room for the photographer so late! shuffled people around in the rooms i already had to get space for them both to stay... I am told the place im getting flowers from wont have blooms in time
now We are in the week before my wedding... i have accepted the fact i may just have random flowers instead of dahliahs who cares as long as everyone is there and happy eight?!?! my MOH calls frantic because her boss lost her time card and she wont have any money to come down for my wedding. my Bridesmaid with vacation days problems calls and says she got covered but now her car doesn't run. OK situation handled shuffled more people around so everyone has a ride, MOH turned in a copy of time card and they accepted it everything is fine right?! No.
we are 3 days before my wedding.. and i get a message saying my bridesmaid has Norovirus: FML. she lives with 1 grooms man, 1 other bridesmaid, the flower girl and ring bearer, AND my mom. (if you dont know Norovirus is very contagious, lasts 1-3 days, and in order to not be contagious you need to be symptom free for 2 days). there is every possibility that half my wedding party and my mom wont be able to make it to my wedding.. and to make matters worse: my hotel has a 72 hour cancellation fee so even if all of them do get Norovirus i wont have enough time to cancel one of the suites..
If they dont get it, the one Bridesmaid could still be contagious up to a week after symptoms are gone. so i still have to shuffle everyone to keep her away from those who havent been exposed so one room will have 4 and one will have 10 people.
If its not one thing its another i swear... so much for simple and easy going. im so anxious because i simply dont knwo yet if they can even make it, and the not knowing is worse.. because i cant do anything..
