Jordan
Beginner October 2019

Wedding Jitters

Jordan, on August 17, 2019 at 8:22 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 20
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Is anyone else getting more and more scared as the big day approaches? Don’t get me wrong, I’m ecstatic and so honored to marry my man! However, I’m terrified as well! We’re 62 days away and my heart pounds harder and harder the closer we get.

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Latest activity by Chinda, on August 19, 2019 at 8:52 PM
  • Kim
    Super September 2019
    Kim ·
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    3 weeks more for me! Totally having all kinds of emotions right now!

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  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
    April ·
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    I’m 461 days away and nervous as heck! I’m not nervous about being married, I’m nervous about being the center of attention and speaking in front of everyone, walking down the aisle and afraid I’m going to keel over or something 🙄😂
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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    413 days and everyone keeps telling me to calm down. I think my sister is the only one not telling me to calm down (at worst she’s just told me to slow down a bit and not stress myself out too much). However I’m so nervous! I’m worried I won’t have all the money I need (my hours fluctuate at work) and that I’ll piss someone off (which I already have like two people now). I’m not so much nervous to walk down the aisle as I am nervous something will go wrong else where in the planning!
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  • Michelle
    Devoted October 2019
    Michelle ·
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    I'm not as nervous as I thought I would be now that the countdown has passed the 50 day mark, but my FH stood by my side through both c sections and I was scared both times. But the idea of our first dance has me a nervous wreck lmao
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I remember feeling much more nervous the closer I got to the date too
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·
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    I'm at 26 days and I feel like I'm going to hurl. The anticipations killing me! Lol Smiley xd Smiley heart

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    I was anxious and nervous for the travel and to make sure we get everything and everyone gets there but other than that I was excited to get married and see my vision come to life and party with everyone. The day off it still hadn’t hit me and I was very calm. One of my maid of honor was like wow you’re so calm and I’m like am I supposed to not be calm? I got a little more nervous as everyone left me and it was just dad and I left but I totally think is normal to feel how you feel.
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  • Madeline
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Sameeee 😂 46 days left until the big w and I feel like I’m a week away....
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  • Rachel
    Devoted October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    I’m 100% right there with you! We have 66 days and it’s making me so nervous. I feel like an elephant is sitting on my chest creating all kinds of pressure. Only thing I can suggest is just keep reminding yourself that at the end of it all you and your honey will be joined together as a team for the rest of your lives. Good luck and best wishes
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  • Laura
    VIP November 2019
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    I’m at 82 days and getting progressively more nervous. Mostly about my family behaving and not getting into it during the reception. Sadly, you can split up and nearly 40 years later, still be angry.
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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
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    You are not alone! I’m 260ish days out and I go back and forth from chill to overwhelmed to the point of tears. I want to marry my man more than anything but I’m second guessing every decision. I kinda wish we just eloped or did a destination wedding much earlier, we’d lose about $3000 if we cancelled the big day and just eloped now but half the time I feel like it’s worth it 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ Definitely not alone girl 💗💗
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  • Sabrina
    Dedicated August 2019
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    Oh yes!!! 6 days left and Everytime I think about it I get a little bit if a fast pace breathing.... 😬😬 I'm super excited to be his wife but I'm freaking out to see if everything comes together since I did 100% of everything.

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  • Nichole
    Savvy November 2019
    Nichole ·
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    82 days for me and it hasn't set in yet. I'm excited though
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  • Jillian
    Dedicated August 2019
    Jillian ·
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    Same! I am 4 Days away and freaking out! I was talking to FH yesterday that this whole process has been mostly stress free and so fun minus the first venue burning down. But now all of a sudden as soon as we hit 1 month I havent been able to chill out! Its making me ready for it to be over and just be on the honeymoon!

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  • Ceelie
    Expert August 2019
    Ceelie ·
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    Yes!! We are less than two weeks out and I was up until 4 two nights ago. Soo many emotions happening just like PP's have said, and I'm freakin out a little! FH keeps telling me to just think of the honeymoon lol. It'll all be over soonSmiley atonished Smiley shame

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  • A
    Expert August 2019
    Aliciabilly2019 ·
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    Im 10 days away i am excited not nervous at all.. if your this nervous then take some time for walks alone or something to calm yourself bc as day 10 approaches your going to be a wreck if you dont find a way to calm down your nerves now ....i could see excited but if your nervous there maybe an underlying issue ...
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  • Jordan
    Beginner October 2019
    Jordan ·
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    I appreciate your suggestion. There is no underlying issue though. This is a life changing event and nervous is a common feeling.
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  • O
    Dedicated November 2019
    Olivia ·
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    74 days for me. I just sent out my invitations today. I'm more panicking than anything because of all the things I still have left to do and I only have weekends to work on them since by the time I get home, make dinner, eat, etc its already bedtime on weekdays. Bridal party has been trying to help but I get so focused I forget to ask for help most of the time until I'm over my head Smiley atonished I really need to delegate more...

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  • LaLa
    Devoted October 2019
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    I have 52 days and I keep getting more nervous and overwhelmed lol. I feel like I should be more excited than I am and I feel bad. I think maybe after all the last minute decisions are made I might feel a little better.

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  • Chinda
    Devoted November 2020
    Chinda ·
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    My fiancé and I had our wedding date April 2020 and I moved it to December 2020. I freaked out and I just want to be able to get everything I want done nicely and not rushed. Although I feel that I’m just being dramatic I just can’t believe we’re getting married! We’ve been together for 13 years and he still finds a way to make my heart skip.
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