Wedding Jitters

3 weeks more for me! Totally having all kinds of emotions right now!

I’m 461 days away and nervous as heck! I’m not nervous about being married, I’m nervous about being the center of attention and speaking in front of everyone, walking down the aisle and afraid I’m going to keel over or something 🙄😂

413 days and everyone keeps telling me to calm down. I think my sister is the only one not telling me to calm down (at worst she’s just told me to slow down a bit and not stress myself out too much). However I’m so nervous! I’m worried I won’t have all the money I need (my hours fluctuate at work) and that I’ll piss someone off (which I already have like two people now). I’m not so much nervous to walk down the aisle as I am nervous something will go wrong else where in the planning!

I'm not as nervous as I thought I would be now that the countdown has passed the 50 day mark, but my FH stood by my side through both c sections and I was scared both times. But the idea of our first dance has me a nervous wreck lmao

I remember feeling much more nervous the closer I got to the date too

I'm at 26 days and I feel like I'm going to hurl. The anticipations killing me! Lol

I was anxious and nervous for the travel and to make sure we get everything and everyone gets there but other than that I was excited to get married and see my vision come to life and party with everyone. The day off it still hadn’t hit me and I was very calm. One of my maid of honor was like wow you’re so calm and I’m like am I supposed to not be calm? I got a little more nervous as everyone left me and it was just dad and I left but I totally think is normal to feel how you feel.

View Quoted Comment Sameeee 😂 46 days left until the big w and I feel like I’m a week away....

I’m 100% right there with you! We have 66 days and it’s making me so nervous. I feel like an elephant is sitting on my chest creating all kinds of pressure. Only thing I can suggest is just keep reminding yourself that at the end of it all you and your honey will be joined together as a team for the rest of your lives. Good luck and best wishes

I’m at 82 days and getting progressively more nervous. Mostly about my family behaving and not getting into it during the reception. Sadly, you can split up and nearly 40 years later, still be angry.

You are not alone! I’m 260ish days out and I go back and forth from chill to overwhelmed to the point of tears. I want to marry my man more than anything but I’m second guessing every decision. I kinda wish we just eloped or did a destination wedding much earlier, we’d lose about $3000 if we cancelled the big day and just eloped now but half the time I feel like it’s worth it 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ Definitely not alone girl 💗💗

Oh yes!!! 6 days left and Everytime I think about it I get a little bit if a fast pace breathing.... 😬😬 I'm super excited to be his wife but I'm freaking out to see if everything comes together since I did 100% of everything.

82 days for me and it hasn't set in yet. I'm excited though

Same! I am 4 Days away and freaking out! I was talking to FH yesterday that this whole process has been mostly stress free and so fun minus the first venue burning down. But now all of a sudden as soon as we hit 1 month I havent been able to chill out! Its making me ready for it to be over and just be on the honeymoon!

Yes!! We are less than two weeks out and I was up until 4 two nights ago. Soo many emotions happening just like PP's have said, and I'm freakin out a little! FH keeps telling me to just think of the honeymoon lol. It'll all be over soon

Im 10 days away i am excited not nervous at all.. if your this nervous then take some time for walks alone or something to calm yourself bc as day 10 approaches your going to be a wreck if you dont find a way to calm down your nerves now ....i could see excited but if your nervous there maybe an underlying issue ...

View Quoted Comment I appreciate your suggestion. There is no underlying issue though. This is a life changing event and nervous is a common feeling.

74 days for me. I just sent out my invitations today. I'm more panicking than anything because of all the things I still have left to do and I only have weekends to work on them since by the time I get home, make dinner, eat, etc its already bedtime on weekdays. Bridal party has been trying to help but I get so focused I forget to ask for help most of the time until I'm over my head I really need to delegate more...

I have 52 days and I keep getting more nervous and overwhelmed lol. I feel like I should be more excited than I am and I feel bad. I think maybe after all the last minute decisions are made I might feel a little better.

My fiancé and I had our wedding date April 2020 and I moved it to December 2020. I freaked out and I just want to be able to get everything I want done nicely and not rushed. Although I feel that I’m just being dramatic I just can’t believe we’re getting married! We’ve been together for 13 years and he still finds a way to make my heart skip.