Wedding Invitations

I would say that if you’ve had a falling out they won’t be expecting an invitation so I wouldn’t send one.

Anyone who receives a save the date should get an invitation, but I think it depends on the nature of the falling out.

If you had a bad falling out, I don't think the other person would care if they were invited. I feel you're okay not sending one to this person

If you don’t see you guys making up then I think it’s okay to not send. It does send a pretty loud message.

I guess that depends on how bad it is. Is there a possibility of fixing the relationship? If there is, I would say send the invite.

No! Things change all the time. Some situations are not black and white like that; this is a grey area. Do whatever you feel most comfortable with. You only need people at your wedding who you feel supported by. You’re not obligated to follow through unless you genuinely want them there.

I think if you've had a falling out and no longer have/want a friendship with them then jts probably ok to not send an invite.
It would be different if you just weren't sending an invite to cut your guest list suddenly!

There's one family member that has caused enormous trouble for us. She has "uninvited herself" from our wedding, and then a few days later says if we start treating her like the "good aunt" she is, she may consider still coming to our wedding. UMM... it doesn't work that way. She doesn't get to make that call, she's caused us so many issues. She's uninvited herself. So, that's it. She's no longer welcome and we will do everything to ensure she is not in attendance. It is our special day, and we will not tolerate any negativity, even from family members.