It's my first post so I may be replicating someone else's post, sorry!
I'm 51, my FH is 61. We plan on getting married in fall of 2022 so that the covid is well and truly over.
I feel kind of ... silly...for wanting a wedding. My previous one was courthouse, it lasted 20 years and I got two great kids from it, no regrets!
I told him I felt like people would think we were silly and he pointed out (truthfully!) that anyone who loves us will be happy and anyone who would mock us won't be invited anyway.
What are some elements you've seen that make a second wedding classy and fun, and not tacky?
I'm wearing a tea length 1950s style dress, he's wearing a gray suit.