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Savvy June 2019

Wedding Favors... too much or too little?

Kailey, on June 14, 2018 at 10:22 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 18
So, my fiancée and I were discussing wedding favors the other night. We love the idea of doing shot glasses with the date and all that jazz on them. This is where we disagree. I think the shot glasses are enough of a wedding favor, but he thinks we should do something else with it.
What do you think? Are just the shot glasses to little? Or would adding something be too much? And if you were to add something along side (we can't do nips at our venue Smiley sad ) what would you add in?

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Latest activity by Jenna, on June 18, 2018 at 1:56 PM
  • Shanee and Brian
    Expert July 2018
    Shanee and Brian ·
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    I'd say the shot glass is enough. If you want to do more, fill the shot glass with Hershey kisses or something small like that.
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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie ·
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    I'd skip the shot glass and do something edible instead. Most people will leave engraved items behind so you may end up wasting a lot of money on them. Favors are also completely optional so you could always save the money and use it to upgrade the bar, add a late night snack or add a fun station to cocktail hour which your guests will likely appreciate more than a trinket.

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    I always discourage anything with a name and date on it. Most people don't want things like that in their house and either leave them behind or throw them in the trash soon after the wedding. You don't have to do favors. If you are set on favors, food is always a great idea. Chocolates. Little jars of jam or honey. Little bottles of olive oil. Small bags of coffee. Many other ideas too.

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  • J
    Dedicated June 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    I’m going to tell you we did edible favorsnin sweet bags because our venue gave us a popcorn exit cart so I went with the sweet and salty theme AND more were taken then I expected. But I have also been to 3 weddings this year with no favors and didn’t even realize it until after the fact lol
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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    I would honestly skip the shot glasses. It's a cute idea, but most people don't care for engraved gifts and will leave them or get rid of them after the wedding. Favors are optional, so you don't necessarily need to have anything. If you do want some sort of favor, I would go with something edible.

    We didn't have favors at our wedding. We did have little to-go boxes at our sweets table, so people could take something home that way.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I think shot glasses are perfect! We are thinking about doing them, since we collect them ourselves. If you had the money and time, you could put something cute inside like personalized mnm's or some other candy?

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  • Daria
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    Daria ·
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    Honestly, don't do it. I'd probably leave it behind, or take it with me because guilt but then toss it soon afterwards. Do something edible (or drinkable) or just skip it.

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  • K
    Savvy June 2019
    Kailey ·
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    With all do respect, my question was for opinions on too much or too little. I was not asking if it was a good or bad idea. I understand what generally people do and don't want. But we know our family and know what they would enjoy and make use of. Thanks for the input though!
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  • sharada
    Dedicated September 2018
    sharada ·
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    I heard so many people say shot glasses are waste of money, because lot of people wont use them after they leave the party. I am doing olive oil with a little herbal stem in it, tied with a small card with name and date on it, with easy to follow recipe behind the card. If people leave this behind also, I would able to use it in the future.

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
    Mrs. Fall Bride ·
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    Honestly, most people don't want a shot glass, or any other trinket, with someone else's name and wedding date on it. I 100% would not take that favor home.

    Edible or drinkable favors are your best bet.

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  • E
    Devoted May 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    I think if you added some candy or even you and FH's favorite drink in the shot size bottles (for adults) that would be cute and enough and if kids are going to be at your wedding maybe the plastic cups with candy?
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    Devoted August 2024
    Tanise ·
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    Love the idea of a shot glass with a little Hershey's kiss inside. Then they get a little bit of chocolate, but not too much. Or if you want, you could put a little "Ring for a Kiss" bell inside. At any rate, making them functional for the event is good. I like the idea of the shot glass because if they do take them home they are extremely functional. Smiley smile

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  • SB
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    SB ·
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    I think the shot glass by itself is perfect! If you do want to add something, I would put some type of candy in them as PP have stated. Other than that, I wouldn't do much more. Shot glasses are always a fun collectable!

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    Dedicated July 2019
    Pearl ·
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    I think its enough of a favor but if you wanted to incorporate either a mini bottle of alcohol or have it filled with candy (like Hershey's kisses) I think it could add the overall favor.

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  • Miaaa
    Super January 2018
    Miaaa ·
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    I think the shot glass is fine- but I wouldn't put name/date. Maybe location if you're getting married in an interesting city or fill it up with chocolate like others said?

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  • A
    Expert January 2019
    Anakaren ·
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    That’s fine because guest will have food dessert drinks so the shot glasses are plenty
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Hi Kailey! I think the shot glass would be such a cute favor! I think just the shot glass is fine. What was your fiancée thinking of adding to it?

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  • Jenna
    Super October 2019
    Jenna ·
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    Maybe I'm in the minority but I would totally keep a shot glass with someone's wedding info on it - I think it's a cute memory! I don't see what's wrong with that at all. I think the shot glass is fine on it's own but you could always fill them with a few Hershey's kisses if it will make FH happier.

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