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Erin
Expert May 2020

Wedding Favors or No?

Erin, on June 17, 2019 at 2:34 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 29

Is it rude to not provide wedding favors for your guests? I thought it would be fine since we are providing dinner and dessert, but my mom says we still need to provide favors. The only reason I ask is because we're going to have a larger crowd and I'm trying to cut back on some of the unnecessary...

Is it rude to not provide wedding favors for your guests? I thought it would be fine since we are providing dinner and dessert, but my mom says we still need to provide favors. The only reason I ask is because we're going to have a larger crowd and I'm trying to cut back on some of the unnecessary expenses!

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  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
    Andrea ·
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    We are skipping favors. They just seem really unnecessary. We are going to have a ton of killer food and alcohol. As a guest, I’d rather have that. Your guests will remember the overall ambiance/experience, not a favor.
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  • Kendall
    Dedicated October 2020
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    I do not think it’s rude especially if you have larger numbers and if you are torn just do something very simple like a small box of candy with the labels or you could only give to adults
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  • Kendall
    Dedicated October 2020
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    Good thoughts
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  • Cori
    Devoted June 2020
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    If you are trying to cut back I’d say forgo favors. I use to cater weddings and there were always so many favors left over. They aren’t necessary and generally a waste of money. I didn’t notice at a wedding I just attended and it was a wonderful wedding.
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    Favors have started to fall out of favor (no pun intended) with many budget brides. We opted to cut them as well to save on time, money, and storage.

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    Favors are not required, and are totally unnecessary. It's a great way to cut some costs, because you don't really need them. Back in the day, favors were a huge thing, and everyone had them. But over time, that tradition has really evolved, and more couples are eliminating that part of the reception. It's costly, and many guests don't even care, and often leave them behind.

    More and more these days I see lots of couples ditching them for something else they'd rather spend their money on.

    We're not doing favors for that reason. They can still be really fun, especially the edible favors (candy, cookies, etc.). But I'd rather spend that money on my dessert table, or my pro hair and makeup--just to name a couple of examples.

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  • April
    Dedicated November 2020
    April ·
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    I feel like so many weddings now don’t give favors, I don’t plan on fo much other than providing flip flops to guests because you can’t be barefoot at our venue. I never expect favors when attending a wedding, either.
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  • Kalynne
    Savvy July 2021
    Kalynne ·
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    We aren’t doing favors, we’re doing a photo booth and desert bar with little cellophane gift bags so they can grab some sweets on the way out... tada “favors”
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
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    Not necessary! If your mom insists doing something small/inexpensive. I was at a wedding were they gave out a few hershey kisses in a mesh bag....Inexpensive but effective to please mom LOL

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