Are they worth it? I am getting married in VA where I grew up, but I live in UT now, so I'd have to fly home to go. Otherwise, I don't have any plans to visit until sometime early next year to help my mom with some of the planning. There are some this Fall, but I'm not sure if it's worth a 7 hour flight just to go to one weekend and only have 1 day with family and friends. The date is mid Oct 2020, so we have some time. I could try and plan my trip home when there's a show in the Spring, but I am not sure if that is too close to the date to go to a show? By then, I imagine my mom (who's planning most of it) will have everything already taken care of, I mean she already had half of it planned 2 weeks after we got engage, she is so excited. I also thought it might be fun to go to with her and my MOH, but not if I'm just going to be overwhelmed or if it isn't worth the time. I'd rather just go home when I can and spend quality time with my family and all of my friends than to have a plan-centric vacation with just my mom and best friend. Thanks in advance!