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Lily
Dedicated December 2019

Wedding Dress Deconstruction

Lily, on October 10, 2019 at 8:56 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 3
Hi everyone! Sorry for the long post. I just need some advice.

I bought my dress a few months back. I got it at Ollie's Bargain Outlet when they had a huge promotion selling Demetrios Wedding Dresses. I bought it because it was my favorite of the limited samples and it was inexpensive compared to the ones I loved at bridal stores. I was also swayed by the fact that it kind of resembled my dream dress, the Lazaro 3059. The one thing I didn't love was the silver embroidery. I thought the dress was just dirty, but after I bought it and took it to be dry cleaned, I realized that's just how the embroidery looked. It was fine on the parts of the dress where beads were sewn on top, but by itself I hated it. Also the more I looked at it and tried it on (it's In my closet), the more I regretted buying a knockoff Lazaro and not going with one of the dresses I tried on at David's Bridal that already fit perfectly with no alterations. (There was a Vera Wang on sale, ballgown and gorgeous that I stood in for like 40 minutes and I didnt get it.) So just recently I had the brilliant idea to design a dress with my wedding dress as the base. My dress is a heavy satin base with two layers of tulle over it, the last layer where all the embroidery and beads are sewn on. I was thinking that I could take off all the tulle layers myself and can take the base layer to a seamstress to get it fitted (that part I definitely can't do), and then hand sew appliques onto my dress, possibly a little sleeve, using the beads from the top layer, and buying a tulle overskirt. I'd be completely changing the design but because it wasn't too expensive, I feel like I can deconstruct this dress without feeling bad. I have had experience with sewing and definitely can do it (besides the tailoring part), and surely if I'm taking away the beaded/embroidered part, it will be way cheaper for a seamstress to fit the dress to me because she doesn't have to deal with all the beads. And then I get a little DIY action as well. Plus it will be exactly how I want it, which was more along the style of the Vera Wang, and everything I thought I wanted before I saw the Lazaro and bought the Lazaro-reminicent that is sitting in my closet. It shouldn't be to expensive either, I've already looked at the applique and overskirt I want and it's within my budget.

TLDR, I really want to deconstruct my own wedding dress but am scared and need people to tell me it's a good idea lol.

(And I suppose if you think it's a bad idea, let me know too! If I dont do this, I'll just take the dress in to get fitted and most likely add some sleeves and be done with it.)

Please tell me what you think!

3 Comments

Latest activity by Sinéad, on October 11, 2019 at 7:36 AM
  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    As with all bold dress decisions, the questions to ask yourself are: if it goes sideways do you 1 Have time to get a new dress? AND 2 Have money to get a new dress. If those things are possible as a back up plan — sure! If not and there’s a chance your dress is ruined/unwearable /turns into something you really hate ...well it’s a then what ?! Situation. Only you can decide if it’s really worth the risk, but you’re also the one who knows your skill level with sewing, and stress level and how busy your schedule is with what all else you need to with as far as wedding prep (id focus a lot on timeline because these types of projects ALWAYS take longer than predicted!). It might be worth talking through with a seamstress first as they may know some hiccups that you don’t see.
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  • Lily
    Dedicated December 2019
    Lily ·
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    That's a really good point! Sometimes I'm so gung-ho about a project that I forget about possible consequences of it going wrong! I will definitely talk to a seamstress and see if the risk is worth it. Thank you for your input!!
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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
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    Hi Lily!!

    I totally agree with the pp and think that you should consider what your back up plan is before you start working on your dress. Also, your timeline and budget will really help inform your decision too!

    I am looking forward to finding out what your decision is after you have consulted your seamstress!

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