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Alyssa
Just Said Yes November 2021

Wedding ceremony

Alyssa, on January 8, 2020 at 9:33 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 9
Hey ladies! So a bit of background, my husband is in the military and we got married in the courthouse on November 20th, 2019 before he got deployed, so now we want to have an actual ceremony. How should I word the invitations and can we still do unity things?

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Latest activity by Catherine, on January 10, 2020 at 3:02 PM
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    Master January 2015
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    Hey Alyssa, welcome to WeddingWire! Since you and your husband are already married, this would technically be a vow renewal. You could say something along the lines of "Please join us in celebration of our marriage for our vow renewal ceremony" Smiley smile

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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    First, congratulations and second, thank you both for your service!

    I would just call it a vow renewal or a unity celebration. I would skip mentioning the word wedding since technically you are already married but at far as the celebration part goes, you can pretty much do anything you want, including the unity.

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  • Alyssa
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    Thank you darling!
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  • Alyssa
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    Thank you so much!
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  • Cyndy
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    Congratulations!! That’s so exciting! And thank you for your husbands service! 🇺🇸 like the others above said it’s not really a wedding but a vow renewal so people will know what they are attending. It can still be as grand as you want.
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    Thank you so much ladies!
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  • Kendra
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    While technically it might be a vow renewal, I don't see why you couldn't still have it be your wedding. I had multiple friends who got married in the courthouse before their husbands left for lots of reasons. They all still had normal, traditional weddings after. Almost everyone knew they had already gotten married but also knew it was because the guy was getting deployed.


    I think here, it depends on what YOU want to do. Sure, there is edict and what is normal, but then there is real life.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    It is technically a vow renewal but if you do not like that term you can say We tied the knot, please join us for a symbolic ceremony. You can still wear your dress and make it an official ceremony especially since you went to the courthouse due to his deployment.

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  • Catherine
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    I agree with this one Smiley smile thank you to your husband for his service!

    my DH and i were married legally in NY then had our ceremony in PA. you could still call it your wedding. its your day! don't stress over the wording too much. Smiley heart

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