Wedding Anxiety 😒

Remember that it’s just a day. Once the day is done, you’ve got a lifetime of marriage. Remembering that it’s not about the wedding but the marriage may make decision making easier.

I feel the same way. It because it’s one of the most important days of our lives and we put so much time, love, energy and hopes into this day that we want every tiny detail to be perfect. I started to get acid reflux I was stressing so much. But I just decided that as long as by the end of the night we’re married then the day was a good day.

I felt the same way. Towards the end of my planning I felt like I wished I’d have had more time to think each choice I made thru

Honestly i have felt like this as well, more than i'd like to admit. But just like Nicole said, it is just a day and then you have the rest of your life with your significant other. Try to make the best decisions and i know for me doing pros and cons list helped relief some anxiety i had. Just try to remember this whole process you need to be taking it in and enjoying it! Best of luck!

Some of that is normal but try to keep in mind that your guests will not remember so much of it. The things you are probably stressing about are likely not that important (or at least that’s how I feel now that I’m married and having been through it). Most guests care that they have good food and drinks and fun music. Try not to stress so much and make a list of the things that are really important to you and your FH

I get like that sometimes, but ultimately, the little choices we make that seem really important to us right now just don't matter that much. No one but you will remember your wedding colors or the song you danced to or whether you went with gold or rose gold accents on the invitations. Everyone is just there for you and to celebrate your relationship and you're just there to make a lifelong commitment to the person you love. Everything else is nice, but not all that important. When I start to get stressed or second guess my choices, my FH is really great at reminding me how much time and research went in to each of those decisions and that our wedding will be beautiful. But even if it wasn't, it will still be one of the most important days of our lives.

View Quoted Comment That’s great advice, thank you 💗

Thank you all! This is all so helpful and good to hear. I appreciate it!