Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Just Said Yes August 2020

Wedding Announcement...

Jovi, on October 25, 2019 at 7:39 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

Saved

Flag
Hide content

Hi all. So, my venue likes to past announcements on all their social media for couples ‘saying yes’ at their venue in the next year. We booked the venue (after being the first to try out their offer of financing it) about six weeks ago. I’ve noticed they are announcing a lot of couples, but our names haven’t been. It sounds so silly, and I shouldn’t even care, but I was kind of excited to be a bit of a millennial and share the announcement on my social media (it seems special of the venue to do). Should I reach out about it, or just wait, or ignore it completely and try to quiet the part of me that is a little bummed?

Thanks in advance!

Flag
Hide content

8 Comments

Latest activity by Tara, on October 28, 2019 at 10:39 AM

Master January 2015
null · on October 25, 2019 at 7:48 AM
Flag

Hide content
Personally, I wouldn't reach out to them about it. I understand the disappointment, but I think it would be a little silly to make a fuss about it. My venue has done something similar with a picture of couples and a sign that says "we said yes!" and I didn't even think about it, so I'm assuming the owners didn't either. No biggie!
- Reply
Master October 2019
Meghan · on October 25, 2019 at 8:13 AM
Flag

Hide content
I guess this is a personal preference. We did not even sign the waiver to allow our venue to post photos from our wedding. I’m not a fan of having my photos on someone else’s social media page that I can’t control. But, if it is really important to you, just take your own picture similar to what they do, post it, and tag your venue in it. They will probably pick up on the hint and post one.
- Reply
Expert November 2019
Kiley · on October 25, 2019 at 8:59 AM
Flag

Hide content
I wouldn't invest the energy in this. I understand the disappointment.. the bridal shop I found my dress at did not take a picture of me with their sign that said "I said yes to the dress" which I know they do.. but it's one of those things that I am sure slips peoples minds. Like a PP said, you can do your own social media announcement and tag the venue!
- Reply
Champion June 2019
Gen · on October 25, 2019 at 10:57 AM
Flag

Hide content
I really don’t think it would hurt to ask! I work in events (corporate events, but still) so trust me, people who work in events work with SO many people that things like this slip through the cracks ALL the time. I seriously bet they just forgot. Nothing bad could come from asking!
- Reply
Master December 2019
Cher Horowitz · on October 25, 2019 at 12:13 PM
Flag

Hide content
I would probably try to let it go. But if it's something that really bothers you, I don't see the harm in reaching out and asking
- Reply
Champion December 2017
earias · on October 25, 2019 at 4:24 PM
Flag

Hide content
It it is important to you, then ask them about it. It could just be a simple oversight.
- Reply
Expert November 2022
Megan · on October 26, 2019 at 4:21 PM
Flag

Hide content
View Quoted Comment
I would probably do the same maybe they will see it and share it on their page!
- Reply

VIP November 2016
Tara · on October 28, 2019 at 10:39 AM
Flag

Hide content
I would totally reach out to them! it's not a big deal and I'm sure they'd love to post it for you. They may have forgotten or thought it posted when it didn't. It's the little things that make a difference.
- Reply