Hi im pretty new to this so im still trying to get the hang of it. my and my husband are 18 and last year we had to get legally married due to some legal and family issues going on before we had a chance to save or plan for an actual wedding. we did our ceremony in his mothers living room with just our moms. our daughter, a mobile officiant and a little ceasars pizza lol. i cant help but feel a little bit of regret about the situation as ive always wanted a fairy-tale wedding since i was a young girl and feel like i missed out on one of lifes biggest milestones. ive spent the last 4 months planning and saving for what ive been thinking of as my wedding party but i was recently looking for invitation ideas on a similar wedding forum and saw some people saying that they thought it was weird or selfish to throw a wedding after youre already married. im just looking for some advice or opinions on how i should continue. would you consider it selfish or would you just continue doing everything as planned?