We did not do save the date invitations

We did that and emailed them, though not til 3.5 months out. Very few but of the people we know see any need for the cost of Saves when email it enclosing them in real letters works. Whether Finland or Wyoming or New Hampshire, no one gives people more than 4-5 months. People do for save longer or keep the date open better with more notice. You might want to be careful about w he ere you post to people who take it as an open invitation when it is clearly not.

View Quoted Comment I’m doing the same thing! We announced our date to family and friends when sharing we are engaged and most put it on their calendar already. Our wedding is in November and we are planning to send out the invites mid August 😁

Electronic save the date? I did paperless post. They have free flyers.

Honestly, I regret sending out STDs for the money reason exactly.


However, you might go on Zazzle & see about making a small magnet with a picture of you two & your date. Send that with your invitations & send the invitations early.

View Quoted Comment Where will I find that at just for curiosity lol

View Quoted Comment Yes because some invitations are going to be handed out and the others who dont live close are being mailed and we also said it thru our wedding registries

View Quoted Comment Thank you much so for you sharing

View Quoted Comment Head to https://www.paperlesspost.com/ website and check it out. There are tons of options — some cost money but I really like their free offerings. I think their free flyers are better than invites but to each their own

View Quoted Comment Ok thank you I will check it out🙂👍🏼