My fiancé and I are not on the same page about what's important and what isn't, she's into asking for help and booking friends as our vendors. I AM NOT. We have the money, it's just a matter of budgeting and because of a recent pay cut I'm taking on more financially which I am happy to do, I don't mind at all but I just need for her to understand how important things are, none of her sisters have gotten married, she has four, I'm the oldest of two and it's the first wedding on my side. I like there to be formality to things and plan ahead so I can get things done correctly, I've been to several weddings and yes have different taste then most but I also know how to save and budget to cover it so I don't see what the problem is!? I want her to feel included and enjoy this so much, but every opinion goes against doing things correctly and I've run out of patience and saying things politely. She's amazing and I know we both mean well I just don't know how to get us on the same page.