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Beginner January 2018

Way to acknowledge step dad at wedding

Ashley, on March 23, 2017 at 6:32 PM Posted in Planning 0 12

I was looking for a nice way to acknowledge my step dad at my wedding since he has been another father figure in my life. My father has always been present in my life and I don't want to take away his spotlight in walking me down the aisle, especially since I'm his only daughter. I don't want my dad to have to share his "dad" moments, but I also want to do something special for my step dad. Any suggestions?!

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Latest activity by Rose, on March 23, 2017 at 9:55 PM
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    Dedicated October 2017
    Carolyn ·
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    My dad's girlfriend is also getting a corsage, like the other moms. You could get him a boutonniere to signify that he's part of the family.

    How much of another father figure has he been? Might help to know more of the history.

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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated May 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    I'm in the same situation! I hope we find something. My friend did a dance wi th her real dad and one with her step dad. I'm not sure if I want to do that though

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  • DoggoMom
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    DoggoMom ·
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    You could do first looks with both of them. That way they both have a separate moment to see you as a bride for the first time and the photographer can capture it.

    ETA - you could then frame the pictures and give it to them as father's day presents or something.

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  • Jaime-Leigh
    Super April 2018
    Jaime-Leigh ·
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    I am in the exact same situation. Something I thought was maybe have dad walk me down the aisle, stepdad will be waiting at the end and when asked "who gives this woman to be married" they would say "we do"

    I don't really like the idea of two separate dances because I don't like to be in the spotlight so much! But I am racking my brain trying to figure this out.

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    Beginner January 2018
    Ashley ·
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    Thanks for the suggestions! I will definitely give him a matching boutonnière, and that may be enough. He married my mom when I was in elementary school, so definitely played a huge part in raising me.

    The first look is a good idea! Also considering a dance, but I don't know if it would take anything away from my dad's dance.

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  • Lauren
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    Lauren ·
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    I was speaking with my FH about this a couple weeks ago. My stepdad has been in the picture for over 10 years but my dad and I are very close. Needless to say they both strongly dislike each other and I do not want to stir up trouble the day of either! I was definitely planning to have my stepdad with a boutonniere and possibly a dance for sure, just don't know if I should single it out or not so we are the only ones on the dance floor.

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  • Brenda
    Super May 2017
    Brenda ·
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    Definitely have boutonniere. Then maybe have stepdad walk you down first half of aisle and your dad walk you to your FH.

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  • Andrea
    Devoted September 2017
    Andrea ·
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    Good luck to you....

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  • Steph
    Super June 2018
    Steph ·
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    At one of my friend's wedding, her step-dad walked her halfway down the aisle and her dad walked her the rest of the way. I thought it was a nice way to acknowledge them both, but it would depend on your relationships and if you and they would be comfortable with that.

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  • CuteNickname
    Super July 2017
    CuteNickname ·
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    Can you include him in the second half of a father daughter dance?

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  • Talia
    Dedicated September 2017
    Talia ·
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    I was having the same issue...but i think what I am going to do is when my FH is dancing with my mom, I am going to dance with my stepdad. That way people arent waiting around watching so many dances and FH dad doesnt want to be in the spotlight so he said he would dance with me sometime throughout the night.

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  • Rose
    Savvy May 2017
    Rose ·
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    I have the same issue. My father is walking me down the aisle, but I'm having both a father/daughter and stepfather/daughter dance. They'll also both be giving speeches. It's a bit much but I didn't want to disrespect either one.

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