water ceremony readings or info?

What is a water ceremony? I have never heard of them before! Sounds very interesting!

Ah.... found it!!

The Hand Washing Ceremony

Meaning - This ceremony is about starting a marriage with a clean slate and being vulnerable together to increase the closeness of the couple.

Time - about 1 to 2 minutes

Supplies:

•Large Bowl filled with water (the water can contain flowers or lemon slices to make look attractive)

•Two hand towels

Placement - This Ceremony Enhancement is done before the Wedding Vows

Example of the wording for this Enhancement:

Spoken by the Officiant

_____ and _____, today, in front of your family and friends, you start your life together anew as a married couple. As with any new endeavor, it is best to start with a clean slate – putting problems big and small behind you.

You come, acknowledging that the person you have chosen is not perfect, yet fits with you in a way no other person can. Whatever difficulties you may have experienced, today you have decided that your love is bigger than any of them and you have chosen a life together.

Water brings forgiveness and we all need forgiveness. We need to forgive others and we need to forgive ourselves. As you wash your hands in this bowl of water, forgive yourself and each other for any pain in the past. Allow yourself to be forgiven for your human imperfections.

Action

Couple will wash their hands in the water together.

Allowing yourselves to have your hands dried by each other signifies your vulnerability. And we have to be vulnerable -- it breaks through isolation and in our own vulnerability, we become more caring and understanding of our mate. In a loving and compassionate marriage, to achieve the greatest intimacy, you must have the courage to be open and vulnerable to each other.

Action

The couple each dries the other’s hands.

_____ and _____, do you begin your lives together with grace and compassion?

“We do”

Then let us now move to the portion of your ceremony where you will state your vows to one another.

Never heard of that before, it's sounds like it's a nice addition to a ceremony, definitely different, Are you looking for a reading to be sone while the two of you wash and dry each others hands?

I think i will have the officiant read that as we wash hands together. I love how it symbolizes washing away problems from our past

It is a good reading!