Walking me down the isle

You can walk by yourself. Maybe have a charm with your step dad's photo on your bouquet. I'm sorry he isn't there to walk you down the aisle, I know this must be so hard for you.

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I've thought about walking myself just worried my need that extra push because I HATE being the certain of attention lol and thank you.

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What might help you with the walk is to focus on your future husband. He'll be standing up there looking all handsome with his gaze focused only on you. Look to him and you'll forget anyone else is even in the room!

If you're doing a first look you could always walk down with your FH. If you aren't maybe even walking in with your bridesmaids or MOH if you have them. Make something different out of it altogether.

I'd just walk by yourself! You'll be the center of attention regardless, so I wouldn't have someone walk you just because of that. It's really a short walk and you are SO focused on your fiance that you won't notice other people.

I'm walking by myself; my Dad passed when I was young. My Mom offered to walk me but I didn't really want that and told her that I wanted her to just be able to enjoy the wedding and seeing me get married which is true. I think her feelings her were a little hurt but I'm going to surprise her with a mother daughter dance. Anyway, maybe just say that you appreciate everyone's support but you'd like to walk by yourself so everyone has the experience of seeing you come down the aisle? Good luck!

I think walking by yourself would be the best option. Stand tall and look at your FH and you will be fine. Good luck!

What was your stepdads favorite colour? Wear a pair of heels that are that colour= him walking you down. I am doing lilac for my grandfather who passed and was supposed to walk me. My dad and I aren’t close but will do Father-Daughter dance. Or pick the song he loved and use an instrumental version.

I had a horrible father. He passed when I was 13, with no remorse on my end... The oldest of my 2 big brothers always said he wanted to give me away, and it was something I'd pictured. He passed away 2 years ago now. My next brother has taken up the position and will be giving me away, however, I am having a necklace made with my brothers ashes so I can have them both with me as I go down the aisle. I understand feeling as if the day will be missing something without your loved one there.

View Quoted Comment I’m sorry to hear that but love the idea of his ashes in the necklace that’s sweet.