Walking down the aisle

Go for it! It doesn’t matter whether you’re already married or not

View Quoted Comment Yea I was thinking of asking my father in law to do it or maybe my oldest son

View Quoted Comment I think that either would be fine! Or both.

Or should I just walk by myself

Since you're already married, I think it would be nice for you and your spouse to walk in together.

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Another option is for you two to walk together. I went to a renewal where they did that and it was very sweet.

I think it's a really sweet gesture of family unity to have your FIL walk you.

View Quoted Comment That's what I was thinking

I thought with Covid I would wait for our vow renewal to have my parents walk me. We’re trying to maintain social distance as much as possible for our minimony so I was going to just enter myself for that.

If you have a brother that can also be really nice.

View Quoted Comment Yea I postponed ours

My dad also passed away a few years ago so I've been debating on either walking by myself or having my mom and/or brother meet me halfway and walk the rest together. Whatever you decide will be a beautiful moment

I'm torn on what I should do

View Quoted Comment Right. As long as it's not a secret that you're already married, which I'm assuming is the case because you're calling it a renewal, it makes sense that you would walk down the aisle together. You don't need to be brought together, because you already ARE together (married).

View Quoted Comment Yes but we are having a actual wedding this time

My dad is also deceased, but I have asked my brother to walk me in.

If I didn't have a brother I would have asked my mom or uncle who has taken care of me like a kid after my dad passed.