Walking down aisle

Is a family member who is that close in relationship allowed to officiate the marriage (with respect to state-recognized marriages)?

View Quoted Comment Yes it is legal in my state

I don't know why your mother couldn't walk you. Is it based on an antiquated gender idea? It's not the officiant's place to dictate customs. Their legal job is to marry you, sign a license, and mail it in. Remove the old officiant, and have someone else bless your union. Have the wedding your way. Best wishes.

I think it would be lovely to have your mother walk you down the aisle and then officiate. Just a reminder that you don't have to have anyone walk you down the aisle. My FH and I are actually walking in together.

View Quoted Comment I agree with Caryn! Your mom could certainly walk you down the aisle, and then immediately stand at the altar to officiate the wedding. If you'd rather she be at the altar during the entire processional, then you could either walk in alone, walk with your son (which I think would be super cute!), ask someone else to walk you down the aisle, or walk down the aisle with your fiance. My husband and I walked each other down the aisle.

Hey Deanna! So sorry you are going through this. I also plan on asking my mom to walk me down the aisle and we are actually asking our best man to officiate! Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and do whatever you want. There are no rules and you should never regret anything. Thinking of your mom being your officiant is sending chills through my body. It is so sweet you are thinking of that as an option. Also, do not be afraid to walk down the aisle alone, because that is another option of mine. You got this and your wedding will be great!

She can do both it's very much possible and will be a beautiful moment. For the both if you Congratulations happy for your upcoming wedding

She can do both! Or have your son walk you, I think that would be adorable as well. But most importantly, it's YOUR AND YOUR FIANCE'S day. Do what fits best for you guys.