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Waiting for Rsvps is painful

Monica, on February 19, 2020 at 4:32 PM Posted in Planning 0 11

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I dont know why its so exciting to get RSVPs in the mail. Its like a little gift lol. Trying to be patient and Not check the mail every day (our mailbox leads straight to our garage), but sheesh the wait is killing me and I only sent the invites out barely 2 weeks ago. All the guests still have about less than a month to rsvp, so it will take a while. Im just anxious because my guestlist went from 150 to over 200, which means more money, which scares me so I am anxious to know whos really coming & whos not.

Also I keep checking to see how many ppl are using our website. So far only 1 person has rsvp via website. It was my sister in law (who is also a bridesmaid) lol she only did it because she knew it would make me happy lol. The number of website visits are going up but No one is using it to rsvp lol not even the young ppl! Lol just thought I would complain for a second lol.

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Latest activity by Monica, on February 19, 2020 at 8:51 PM

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Melle · on February 19, 2020 at 4:34 PM
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I think it’s normal to be excited for things you’re waiting for such as when we come home to packages we bought aha
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Jennifer · on February 19, 2020 at 4:35 PM
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I get it! We only sent out about 20 invites. Most was to family and therefore most of them just called to rsvp. I cannot tell you how much more excited I was when someone actually sent me our rsvp back via the good old United States Postal Service.
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 4:36 PM
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Lmao. Yes. This is true.
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Gen · on February 19, 2020 at 4:38 PM
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I totally get it! Keep in mind though we got a lot more of our declines closer to the due date (like people who know they’re coming will rsvp right away, but it’s lower priority for people who aren’t planning to come) so don’t freak out about pricing if it seems like you’re getting all Yes’s because your No’s may be more concentrated at the end
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 4:40 PM
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Aw yea about 2 ppl texted me. Which im fine with too. Theres a few ppl that rsvpd by mail that im like 🤦🏽‍♀️ U didnt need to mail one but thank you!! These include my FHs best man and my pastor! I thought it was so funny my pastor who is my officiant confirmed she was attending the wedding lolll.
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 4:42 PM
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Ooh thank you! That is true & a really good point. My rsvp deadline is March 15th & wedding is April 4th. So I have a ways to go.
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Christine · on February 19, 2020 at 8:38 PM
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I know what you mean. Were getting married the same day and our deadline is March 4th. We didnt use a website and only got 3 back. But I'm not stressing it or following up with anyone. I'm hoping they are just waiting until last minute.
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Mandi · on February 19, 2020 at 8:42 PM
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We have a ring doorbell and the mailman either comes right before I wake up or while I'm in the shower. It takes a ton of self discipline to not run out to our mailbox in my towel.
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 8:49 PM
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Oh man. I think Ive got you beat. I think I got 5 or 6 back lol
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 8:50 PM
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Loll!! 😂😂
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Monica · on February 19, 2020 at 8:51 PM
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Another reason why For not receiving the rsvps: I just talked to my closest cousin who lives across the US “Oh I got your card last week but I haven’t opened it yet” 😩🤦🏽‍♀️😂.
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