Ok so I'm an extremely anxious person and my FH really wanted to write our own vows. It's one of the maybe two things he's asked for. So here we are 9 days away and I'm writing my vows. This is what I have so far. Let me know what you think.
Today as I become your wife I vow to shelter you from your own insecurities and lift you up to the amazing person I see. I vow to pause and take a breath. Remembering that we are two different people, merging together two different lives. I will breath and breath and breath again as I repeat myself for you. I vow to always be truthful with you so that you may know me as well as I know myself. Though I'm sure you will come to know me better. I vow to laugh with you at not only the silly songs we make up for one another but at the mistakes I'm sure we will make over the years. I vow to love not only the person you are today but the man you will become. I will devote myself to you through the pressures of our present and the uncertainties of our future. We will grow side by side together and as I give you my hand to hold, I give you my life and my love to keep.