Hello Brides and Brides to be. I'm getting married in 5 days. YIKES. So, my husband to be doesn't want to write is vows. I told him how much it would mean to me. But he is still a hard NO. My Fiance is a hard-shell, and I know public speaking is NOT his thing. So I'm done asking. But I did write vows to him. Would it look weird if I site my personal vows and he does the standard vows?