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Tara
VIP November 2016

Vow Renewal for my In-laws

Tara, on July 17, 2020 at 3:44 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 2

Hello Wedding Wire community!

My mother and father-in-law will be celebrating their 40th Wedding Anniversary August 9, 2020! My mother-in-law has mentioned for at least the past year that she wanted to renew their vows this year. With this pandemic, that idea got put on the back burner. I brought it up a few weeks ago and am now in the process of planning a party for them! I knew it was something she really wanted, so I encouraged her to move forward with it. The event won't be more than 50 people, and it will be outside at a state park. I booked a pavilion near the lake so we have covered space and can utilize the scenery to our advantage.

My father-in-law is ok with having a party but isn't too keen on renewing his vows. I'm hoping we can convince him before the date actually comes! What I'm looking for advice on or wondering from this wonderful community is, who here has renewed their vows or been to a vow renewal? And if so, what was the day like? I'm looking for ideas of what sort of timeline might be good to use and what wording was used for the ceremony itself. It won't be anything super formal, low-key rustic type of event. But I need some structure in the day or I'll lose my mind! Haha. Help me come up with something short and sweet that can pay homage to their last 40 years together!! Any and all ideas appreciated Smiley smile

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on July 20, 2020 at 3:11 PM
  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    The renewal of vows is something they both need to be on the same page with. If he's not comfortable with it, then respect that and leave it be. Plan a nice party at a local community hall with dj, restaurant catering, a tasty cake.
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    My parents recently renewed their vows! I can't remember the details of the ceremony, but it was maybe 10 minutes long with 1 song. An associate pastor did the service, and then they had a small reception right after in the next room with drinks and desserts! Smiley cake

    I also helped decorate the room with pictures from their original wedding day and our family through the years! Smiley heart

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