Virgin on Honeymoon

I had that experience when I was younger and lost my virginity for the first time. I don't know really have the same experience as far as getting ready to be married. But I will say this to you. Your fh loves you and will love your body. We are way harder on our looks that they are honestly. And if you two have never had sex, he may be feeling the same way as you. That's as much as I can give you because I will not be a virgin on my wedding night. Don't expect much because the first time isn't particularly fireworks.

Not on my wedding night. But if you love each other he will love your body. You will get used to being naked together. In no time you will be walking around the house naked together without a care in the world! Lol

One thing I'd like to let you know though. The first time (for me) freaking hurt! Like we couldn't even finish. And of course I had heard that ahead of time but kept thinking "people are big babies, it can't be that bad" boy was I wrong lol. The second time hurt just for a few minutes and then it was fine.

He definitely won't notice flaws. If he's like most guys he will just be super stoked to be having sex lol

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Not on my wedding night, but yeah, I was incredibly uncomfortable with DH seeing me nude for the first time. For me it wasn't even worrying about flaws so much as just feeling incredibly exposed. The first time we tried, I was actually too scared to have sex.

The best advice I can give you is not to feel pressured, and to take it slow. I'm not sure whether you've done anything more than kiss, but just play around getting comfortable with each other's bodies and see where it goes. And know that sex is awesome, but the first time may not be. It gets better with practice.

Yes sex definitely gets better! Don't be upset if first few times aren't great.

You are picturing sex the way media/movies present it, as a staged need to be perfect type image

I promise you your FH is gonna love seeing you naked and sex is a very intimate act when done with someone you love, he isn't going to be thinking any of the the negative things you have built up in your head. Trust me you two are going to be just fine! Sex is the best.

I promise you notice more flaws than he ever will.

I was incredibly self-conscious the first time too, but it gets easier and your confidence will grow. Don't expect it to be mind blowing either (though it may be!). Your first time, or first couple times, will probably hurt and the experience may be awkward.

It's probably going to be very awkward (assuming you are both virgins) the first few times. Don't go in with crazy expectations just try and relax and enjoy each other.

I was uncomfortable around DH in the first months of our relationship. I was (and still am a little) self conscious. But he doesn't see what I see, and he loves me and makes me feel so sexy. I walk around naked all the time now with no problem.

You'll be fine. He loves you and he will love your body. It might be awkward the first few times, but you'll each get used to each other and more comfortable. Don't expect anything to happen on the wedding night, you'll probably be exhausted!

This is why FH & I have been bangin' since we got serious lol.

Haha on a real note, don't be nervous! First time hurts and it's probably gonna be awkward esp if he's also a virgin. But it's okay! Sex gets better with time.

I would suggest not just rushing into sex. Take your time. Explore each other's bodies for a few days first (oral, fingering etc). As pp's have said the first time hurts for the girl (also use a towel under you in case you bleed) and if you're nervous it will hurt even more. Also he is probably feeling the same way about himself and his body. And more importantly he will be so excited to see a naked female he will think you are the sexiest thing alive and will cherish you and your body

Agree with Olivia. Booze it up (a little bit) it will help you relax and it may hurt less.

Embrace your body, your man loves you and is more than excited to be your first one. That's the best gift he could ever get on the wedding night.

You guys are all awesome!! Thank you all so much! All of your advice is well appreciated! By the way, I don't drink. So I'll be going in totally sober. Lol!

Men are just happy to get their partners naked...trust me. My FH loves me (cellulite thighs, stretch marks, scars from working with animals all my life) I think when guys love someone they snapchat filter out all those flaws we see in ourselves. They honestly don't see them.

As others said, he will love your body! And that will actually be the best part is seeing and feeling each other for the first time. When the sex does happen... it may not be too fun. It'll hurt and there may be blood on sheets afterward (which is normal!!) it'll be sooo romantic.

Is he also a virgin?

My FH and I have been together almost 6 years and he wanted to wait till marriage and I didn't I said if you want to marry me then why wait. So we did it(;. He is still the only man I slept with and I am the only woman he slept with but I wouldn't have wanted to wait.

On the other hand. It didn't hurt my first time? I didn't bleed. People make it sound so scary and painful but it wasn't to me. I agree use foreplay it's the best part.

Best of luck.

Get a magic wand. It's worth *every* single penny. Have your FH use it on you, then you take control. Repeat as needed!

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Honestly, I don't think men even notice cellulite and extra pudge. Especially if it's his first time too. He'll just be stoked to see boobs and have sex. He loves you for you. I know you're insecure and nervous, but try to focus on how excited you are to have these new experiences with your FH.

I haven't had this experience exactly, but I feel like most of us remember the feeling of our first time. I think for you, just remember that this man loves you , and he chose you the way you are, forever. He doesn't love you just for your body, so remember that when you feel nervous. Good luck!!