I'm having second thoughts about my venue. My FH really really really claimed to love it, so I went with it. Now, he tells me he only really loved it because of the price. Every time I look at pictures of it, or talk about it, I get upset because its not what I envisioned, especially since I know he didn't truly love it.
The price differences between the one I wanted and the once FH wanted is less than $1000.
My sister thinks that I should let the $1000 deposit go and see if the other venue I wanted is still available. FH is willing to do it if that means I will be happy. But letting a $1000 go to waste really bothers me especially since we are tight on our budget anyways.
The venue FH wanted is "pretty". I do like the outside ceremony area. I feel I will more money on doing decor to change it into something I like. I mean it's just not us. It's a country club with a slight rustic feel.
From jump, I said I did not want a rustic venue, and we have never been to a country club in our lives. We were both born and raised in huge cities, and my venue was on the top floor of a hotel overlooking the city.
Any ideas on what I should do?
