Hi we got engaged last year and decided to have our wedding on June 2020.
My family is from Europe and fiances family is from Canada. We both live in the US and no one else here. We first wanted to do our wedding in Canada because just few member of my family would come so would be more convenient for everyone. After looking into the tourist visa process for my family there is a long list of documents which some of them my parents don't have like a lot of money in the bank or owning property. so we decided to do it in the US since my parents have been here before and had no problem getting the visa. In laws not happy but kinda agreed. Reminder that we are paying for our own wedding. They might wanna help but haven't said anything yet. Now I looked in different venues in Niagara Falls NY which is convenient for everyone and we are ready to go and look into places. They called my fiance and keep asking him what is the real reason we don't want to do it in Canada? Why we don't look in places in Canada? They are going to ask an immigration lawyer now to make sure that what we are telling them is correct. Just now after i scheduled all my venue meetings.after they suggested Niagara Falls and we agreed with it. I'm so frustrated with them and my fiance who told them ok you check with them immigration that i don't know what to do.
We are going next week to see them and I'm so frustrated and scared we are going to get in a big discussion. They can get opinionated and I can't tolerate it.
Please help
