I just feel like I need to vent about a couple things 😫
First one of my bridesmaids and closest friends over the years seems to be completely disinterested in anything to do with my wedding. She dated a guy for a year and they broke up in April and we got engaged at the end of July. Ever since we got engaged she keeps saying things like, “It’s really hard for me to be around happy couples right now” etc etc. Which I understood and was sensitive to at first..but at this point I feel like it’s been 8 months and she should be over it..I understand breakups can be hard but.... Also I have been with my fiancé for almost 5 years now and 3 months into dating this dude she was teasing me with things like “ooh what if we got engaged before you?!” So that has been a little annoying and ridiculous from the start.
Then she REFUSES to try on bridesmaid dresses. She keeps complaining that she has gained some weight and simply refuses to go try on a dress because she says “my body won’t be like this in a year”. Well regardless we need to decide on dresses like now and we can’t continue to avoid it until your body is where you want it to be. If that was the case would any of us ever buy any clothes?? 😂
And then anything I’m excited about she just couldn’t care less it seems. I found my wedding band, I picked out my invitations, etc etc and when I share with her she either doesn’t respond at all or she responds with the least excitement possible..like “oh..cool”. I’ve tried to be sensitive to whatever her personal issues have been but like I said it’s been 8+ months now and at what point does she start to be excited and supportive to me?
Lastly..my wedding coordinator just tells me today that she’s pregnant! She will have a 3 month old at the time of my wedding. And this is not her full time job to begin with. I just really wonder how available and “in the game” she will be the month or two leading up to my wedding with a newborn.. It seems like this was not planned so I hate to think what her clients for that month are going to do.. but now I’m feeling worried too. I know it sounds bad but to be honest I would have never hired her if I knew she’d be having a baby a couple months before our wedding. UGH. That is all 😕
